Confused where to go from here?

LegacyUser

I was talking online to a girl I met before I went on holidays for the last couple of months and we agreed to go on a date when I got back into the country in about 2 weeks. We were talking nearly every other night for a good while yet the last time we spoke was about 2 weeks ago now (barring once very briefly last week). I've tried starting up a conversation two or three times now and I've just been ignored by her. Just wondering if anyone had any opinions?

It's weird because we'd be talking to each other for hours and we were getting on great and now it's like a switch turned off or something...I don't want to be pestering her either all the time, the way I see it is I've done my part in trying to start a conversation so the ball's in her court so to speak.

Miss Fluff

Seems like she's lost interest, I'd just leave it tbh.

LegacyUser

That's what I thought, it's just weird that we went from having a 3 hour conversation on msn one night to absolutely nothing since then...it's even weirder since she's the one who suggested we meet up...

wealthyman

Yep she has, you need to forget her and move on. It happens, happened to me last week, hourly chats and endless texts every day, then one day nothing. Fact of life you will never understand why people do these things.

Kadongy

Dodged a bullet by the sounds of things. If you think you're confused now imagine how you'd feel if you were in a serious relationship with her when she suddenly switched. Lots of people are like that girl.

sibeniklove

Thats the thing with internet dating. I have been internet dating for a year and i have to admit terrible as it sounds i have done the same thing. One guy i was chatting to and getting on fine with started to get a bit sexual with me so rather then tell him i wasn't comfortable with it as i should have done, i just started to ignore him. I'm sure it wasn't the same with you, but it have be she just met someone and moved on.

I got my mine in the end though. I guy i really like and had been chatting to every night for three months stopped chatting to me after i met him for the first time. Ouch! I'm not as fanciable to him in person i guess. I miss chatting to him, but after posting the problem on here and getting some great replys i have decided to move on.

I guess what i am saying is that internet dating can create the illusion of closeness that really can only be adcheived from meeting in person. You are not someone they met through friends or a social scene so it is easy for them to drop you. I'm sure she is a lovely girl, but maybe like me just didn't know how to end the online friendship so started to ignore you.