Need some private help

LegacyUser

Sorry had to do this under an unreg'd name...

Need some private help with a kinda new relationship I'm in thats perfect but something is missing, bed wise. Anyone know of another web forum thats not based in Ireland that I could ask for some advice? A private message would be really great if anyone knows of a good one.

Sorry for the stupid waste of topic space guys! Just heads a little wrecked at the moment and cant talk about this on here, people will know and figure out who I am, eek.

baby and crumble

Well we can't PM you on a unreg account.

I don't know if you're male or female but if you're female you could try afterellen.com, it's based in the States and has a pretty vibrant forum. They have a brother site for guys, called afterelton.com, I'd assume it's the same kind of vibrancy there too.

rainbow kirby

If you're female, /r/ActualLesbians on Reddit is great for this sort of thing.

easychair

relationship problem comfused wrote: »

Sorry had to do this under an unreg'd name...

Need some private help with a kinda new relationship I'm in thats perfect but something is missing, bed wise.

Relationships usually take time to work. Fairy stories and hollywood make believe that there is "the one" and that when we find "the one" it will all be completely and blissfully perfect from the outset.

Thats fantasy, and it takes time to get to know someone emotionally, physically, intellectually and sexually.

Rather than taking advice from strangers in the internet, I'd suggest you discuss this with your partner. That doesn't mean launching into a speech on how he, or she, is crap in bed, but being tactful and working together to want to make it more satisfying for both of you. No one can guess what satisfies their partner, and its mainly by communicating with a willingness to pleasure a partner, that any of us can know.

Relationships are supposed to be about engaging and communicating, and its only by being open and honest with each other that a relationship will grow and flourish.

Kanoe

pillows? I like a good fluffy pillow.

WonderWoman!

relationship problem comfused wrote: »

Sorry had to do this under an unreg'd name...

Need some private help with a kinda new relationship I'm in thats perfect but something is missing, bed wise. Anyone know of another web forum thats not based in Ireland that I could ask for some advice? A private message would be really great if anyone knows of a good one.

Sorry for the stupid waste of topic space guys! Just heads a little wrecked at the moment and cant talk about this on here, people will know and figure out who I am, eek.

this seems a bit basic but
Have you spoken to one another about likes and dislikes and that nature of things ? I don't think it's something you should be getting boggled over try different positions and talking to one another you never know your partner might have some fantasy needs fulfilling -Could make things a lot more interesting .
Reddit is good I've heard so you could give that a shot too

Hope everything works out for you both