Where to meet and make love and the cost lol

LegacyUser

Hi im with a guy for first time and we love eachother. Well i love him he hasnt said it yet. Ive always been with girls but im just smitten over him and getting to love him.We met in hotel before and had fun but didnt go the full way but i wanna . But its getting costly on my behalf as we both cant afford it cos we are not out, either of us. Im looking for a nice place to be with him. Any suggestions? I must stress i dont want a kip but somewhere nice. I want him to enjoy himself and not in a kip.( maybe thats my fault i try to hard) . Somehwere around €150 for one night. if you guys got any suggestions id wud be so much appreciated. As i said im new to this so need advice also. Peace out

p.s i dont appreciate comments saying do him in a toilet etc cos thats just wrong. I do love this guy. We have skyped for like 50 hours and met loads. I always thought i was straight but this guy has an affect on me. Anyway I would love some constructional advice pls.

Thanks

Jamie

Annasopra

Presumably you are in Dublin?

The Central Hotel is near the George and is probably within your price range

TylerIE

The Royal Hotel in Bray is not far from Dublin and Public Transport (Dart or bus)... Its well within your price range and has a Leisure Centre etc. I know they have been ok with gay male couples previously.

Also check on Alldeals.ie for hotel offers. You need to book in advance with a credit card. If your dont have a credit card get an o2 prepaid one or similar and use it, as some of the offers are very good. Theres usually at least one hotel on it!

This one for €79 in Roscommon includes wine + chocolates looks perfect for one romantic night, and also has a pool etc, but needs to be booked by tomorrow at midnight.

Im suggesting the above based on you wanting somewhere nice...

cgcsb

you should be able to get a hotel no problem with 150 for just one night. This website should help:

http://www.1800hotels.com/

You sound v sweet by the way. Awwww

Aard

Unless you're going rack rate, there's no way you'd need to spend €150. Bewley's was €59 last time I stayed.

foggy_lad

You should really try to make sure he feels the same about you before you start doing all this to be with him, he could be just using you and when he has had his way he may dump you for the next young chicken around town. many guys are just looking for "notches on their bedpost" that they can brag and boast about with other such predatory pests.

If it does feel right and the time is right for you then there are several cheap hotels and even several B&Bs where ye will be welcome for much less than €150 a night.

cgcsb

foggy_lad wrote: »

You should really try to make sure he feels the same about you before you start doing all this to be with him, he could be just using you and when he has had his way he may dump you for the next young chicken around town. many guys are just looking for "notches on their bedpost" that they can brag and boast about with other such predatory pests.

Jeeezz way to kill a buzz.

easychair

foggy_lad wrote: »

You should really try to make sure he feels the same about you before you start doing all this to be with him, he could be just using you and when he has had his way he may dump you for the next young chicken around town. many guys are just looking for "notches on their bedpost" that they can brag and boast about with other such predatory pests.

If it does feel right and the time is right for you then there are several cheap hotels and even several B&Bs where ye will be welcome for much less than €150 a night.

Your post made me laugh out loud! The OP wasn't asking for advice on what the other guy might or might not be doing, and to jump to conclusions on the basis of no evidence, seems to be taking pop psychology too far.

How do you know the other guys is not a psycho serial murderer? Or an airline pilot? Or someone who is longing to let himself fall in love with another man? Or........?????

just as your "many guys" are looking for notches in a bedpost, so "many" other guys are not.

Killer Pigeon

Foggy lad speaks sense. I mean you should always exercise cautiousness.

Conor30

Hi Jamie. For €150 for a room for a night, you'd get a lovely hotel room. Make sure you split the cost with him though and that he's not taking you for a ride, no pun intended!! I get the feeling he's a bit older that you?

Enjoy it. Hope everything goes well for you.

cgcsb

you could even afford some nice room service meals at that price