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contact after a first date...

  • 27-08-2011 9:47pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 202 ✭✭


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,699 ✭✭✭deathrider


    Three years. Let her stew for a while.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    How did you organise the date in the first place if he didn't have your number? :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Whenever.

    Might be straight away saying something about the date, might be a day or two to set up the next one.

    It actually doesn't make a difference as unless the person likes you they won't make contact at all, and unless you like them you won't care when you get the call/text.

    The concept of rules or a waiting time is a plot device from **** Hollywood rom-coms that has circulated the mainstream consciousness because most people need some kind of reason for **** to go wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    There are no rules.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    How did you organise the date in the first place if he didn't have your number? :confused:

    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,443 ✭✭✭Bipolar Joe


    the Internet, DUH.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:
    Rape.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,699 ✭✭✭deathrider


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:

    There was no before phones. They've always been there... They just used to be in black and white. That's all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:

    before 1870 or thereabouts?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,114 ✭✭✭✭bnt


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:
    Mothers, Aunts, Grannies, and their friends. Your future husband/wife might live a few miles away, but your first moment alone would be on your wedding night.

    You are the type of what the age is searching for, and what it is afraid it has found. I am so glad that you have never done anything, never carved a statue, or painted a picture, or produced anything outside of yourself! Life has been your art. You have set yourself to music. Your days are your sonnets.

    ―Oscar Wilde predicting Social Media, in The Picture of Dorian Gray



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    galwayrush wrote: »
    Hmm, how did people manage before phones were invented?:rolleyes:

    Smoke signals!

    Course they've banned that now......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    krudler wrote: »
    before 1870 or thereabouts?

    I'm pretty sure back then you spoke to the man of the house and he told the relevant female where to be, at what time and to look pretty.

    Simpler times.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    I'm pretty sure back then you spoke to the man of the house and he told the relevant female where to be, at what time and to look pretty.

    Simpler times.


    or carrier pigeons


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,944 ✭✭✭fedor.2.


    Whenever.

    Might be straight away saying something about the date, might be a day or two to set up the next one.

    It actually doesn't make a difference as unless the person likes you they won't make contact at all, and unless you like them you won't care when you get the call/text.

    The concept of rules or a waiting time is a plot device from **** Hollywood rom-coms that has circulated the mainstream consciousness because most people need some kind of reason for **** to go wrong.



    Ah the experienced voice of inexperience


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    fedor.2. wrote: »
    Ah the experienced voice of inexperience

    Sure thing Fedor.2

    2 more posts along those line and you'll be 0-3 just like your boy.:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 347 ✭✭Mr. Boo


    If he hasn't contacted you within a week, just send him a pendant with a vial filled with your blood.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,351 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Cinema for a first date!? :/ It seemed like it went well, try not to get in contact too soon after the first date. Lay low for a while and not seem too eager. Maybe hang on till tomorrow before texting or phoning. Keep it cool, be friendly but not act too eager. It takes time to get to know people rushing it is not a good idea. If he asks then he will contact you!? wait until his does, do something to occupy yourself without waiting beside your phone! If he hasn't by or after tomorrow text him later in the day tomorrow or the day after! Good luck OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,944 ✭✭✭fedor.2.


    Sure thing Fedor.2

    2 more posts along those line and you'll be 0-3 just like your boy.:D



    Touche


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35 saorise


    feck that ****e!!! I bet you you had a really good think... you wouldnt want to see him again! ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,940 ✭✭✭Corkfeen


    After Hours is slowly becoming a sitcom.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,443 ✭✭✭Bipolar Joe


    A monkey just took a sh!t in my shoe.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 30 Bag of Poo


    I usually tell her to get in touch when her vagina stops feeling sore.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Bag of Poo wrote: »
    I usually tell her to get in touch when her vagina stops feeling sore.

    you must be every woman's dream date.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Wasn't the OP edited? :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    Wasn't the OP edited? :confused:

    'twas. And therein lies the crux of the problem. OP, you need not care as much what people think about you. If you like him and have his number ring or text him. If you don't, be comfortable in the knowledge that should he not contact you then you have lost nothing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus


    Bag of Poo wrote: »
    I usually tell her to get in touch when her vagina stops feeling sore.

    Herpes?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,114 ✭✭✭✭bnt


    Corkfeen wrote: »
    After Hours is slowly becoming a sitcom.
    Lots of Situation, not much Comedy, I'd say. :o

    You are the type of what the age is searching for, and what it is afraid it has found. I am so glad that you have never done anything, never carved a statue, or painted a picture, or produced anything outside of yourself! Life has been your art. You have set yourself to music. Your days are your sonnets.

    ―Oscar Wilde predicting Social Media, in The Picture of Dorian Gray



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