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Have a GF but fallen for someone else!

  • 25-08-2011 4:07pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    As the title say's I have a GF of a few months, we get on great, have a great sex life etc, however I've fallen for someone else whilst my GF went travelling for a month, she's everything I would look for if i was single, fun, entertaining, witty and very good looking. I actually lust more for this girl than i ever have with my GF, can't get her out of my mind etc

    I'm really in two minds and I'm not going to lie very selfish in what to do, I would love for something to happen with the second girl, but feel like i'm stringing along the first for the fact that if me and the new girl didn't work out I still won't lose the first.

    I just need some genuine advice on what too do!


Comments

  • #2
    solerina
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,435 ✭✭✭solerina


    As its not a very long term relationship you have with your girlfriend I think its somewhat easier. I would think you should break up with your gf and give it a shot with this new girl, there is no point staying with your gf and stringing her along if you have more feelings for the other girl.


  • #3
    gargleblaster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭gargleblaster


    Put yourself in your girlfriend's shoes. If your girlfriend met someone that she couldn't stop thinking about, and lusted after more than she ever did for you - what would you think was the right thing for her to do?


  • #4
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    Nevergood wrote: »
    ...... I would love for something to happen with the second girl, but feel like i'm stringing along the first for the fact that if me and the new girl didn't work out I still won't lose the first.

    OP, if you and your current girlfriend are OK with a shallow "fun" relationship then it's fair enough to think like this. If either of you is looking for something serious then your concept of "she'll do for now until something better comes along" is just going to get somebody hurt.

    So, if your heart is set on girl #2, why not just end your current relationship and pursue her?

    Be at peace,

    Z


  • #5
    sbsquarepants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    To quote the great Johnny Depp: -
    If you find yourself in love with 2 people then choose the second one, if you really loved the first you would never have fallen for the second.

    Plus, if it doesn't work out with number 2, it's not like she's the last woman in the world. You don't need a safety net!


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    If you don't care about your girlfriend, then do something with the second girl.

    If you do care about your girlfriend, break up with her and let her find someone who actually likes her.


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