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  • 15-08-2011 11:50pm
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    LegacyUser
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    hi all,
    something on my mind that would like some feedback on. live opposite side of country to my sister. we would be very different people, get along with her and all that but never been really close. just today really shocked me. she has drifted last 3-4 years had a messy break up, lost job 3 years ago and seems to have got stuck into doing different courses. which sounds good but she seems reluctant return to proper routine, has left courses unfinished etc.

    today she arrived to my house and it shocked me how much she has let herself go, has put on lots weight, seems have no pride in how she looked etc. im really concerened for her but dont know how i can breach subject. our mother is deceased and she has moved back to family home for last 3 years with our stepmother. i have been pressuring her move out and 'do something' which she tells me she is planning but nothing is happening.

    im at my wits end, just did not like how i seen her today. how i can i help her without hurting her feelings , as i said we wouldnt be close as in discuss personal stuff. but i do get along, never fight etc, just we are v different


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