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Should I message him or leave it?

  • 15-08-2011 12:28pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I met a really nice man at the weekend. He's here on holidays, travelling around for a few weeks and was staying with friends that night. I went home with him and the sex was a bit embarrassing (first he couldn't get it up, then came too soon). The next morning he took me for breakfast, we had a nice chat and he hugged me goodbye and said it had been great to meet me, he'd had fun and he might see me if he's in the area again. Since he didnt ask for my number I didnt ask for his and thought its probably for the best because he's only on holidays anyway.

    Later on in the day I bumped into his friends, had some chit chat and decided to give one of them my number to pass on to him. I thought its possible he was too embarrassed about the night before to ask. I also found him on facebook but would it be far too presumptious to get in touch that way? Should I just wait and see if he gets in touch?


Comments

  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    He will now know you'd like to see him again by virtue of the fact you gave your phone number to his friends to pass on. Leave it at that.


  • #3
    Magicmatilda
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 601 ✭✭✭Magicmatilda


    I think you should leave it. He here on hols and as the previous poster said you have passed on your number. If he wants to see you again he will contact you.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Er, it was a one night stand.

    If he had wanted your number he would have asked.

    Don't be pushy!


  • #5
    c07
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 226 ✭✭c07


    yep, I'd leave it.


  • #6
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    Leave it. A guy that's here for a few weeks and had sex with you would be a ONS...really doubt he'd be interested in anything else


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