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Friend's childish behaviour

  • 10-08-2011 10:14am
    #1
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭


    I don't quite know where to start with this but I guess it started when we went on holidays back in June, there were 3 of us (girls) and we were having a great time, relaxing in the sun and by the pool. then one night, I guess a few drinks were taken and one of my friends acted a bit childishly. We never said anything about it the next day and just carried on and came home. Fast forward a few weeks and a friend of mine was home in Ireland on holidays and we went out for a drink and she made a comment when we were on the way home, he was not on our route home, that his girlfriend wasn't that pretty and we were better and how come we didn't have boyfriends, I just said nothing and put it down to drink that maybe i picked her up wrong or she worded it wrong.

    So then two weeks ago she told me she wasn't going out for a few weeks and then I went out with two friends last week and we didn't invite her. It was very much a last minute thing and could have been cancelled at the last minute. She asked me if I went out I said I did as I wasn't hiding it and then she rang one of the other girls and asked her why we hadn't invited her to come with us.

    I just wanted a stress free night out as there is always some drama or we have to leave when she wants to. so now I am going to away next weekend and felt I had to tell her and invite her to come, now we have already booked the hotel etc. so I mailed her this morning saying I was going to away for the weekend and she was more than welcome to come, I don't really know what kinda advice I am looking for but I am going to see her in the next few days and I am just finding her behaviour quite childish, there are other things too but they don't involve me and I wish she wouldn't tell me, as I don't want to get involved either.

    Oh I am going away with two girls that she wouldn't been ultra friendly with, she never rings or e-mails them.


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  • #2
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭shoes34


    The thing is she doesn't contact the other two girls I was out with to see if they are going out in fact she almost always waits for us to ask her out so for her to call one of the others and ask why she wasn't invited was a bit odd.

    I have only been friends with her for a few years maybe 4 the other girls I've know a lot longer. I don't feel the need to go out when the others are going out and I am sure there are times they have gone out without me.

    Just find it hard sometimes feel that the friendship is always about making sure she is OK - in saying that she has done massive favours for me and I have done the same for her just that I want to go away next week and for her not to come, I know I sound mean but I just want a chilled out weekend and I will be one who will have to share the room with her if she comes.

    think I will have to say to her to just chill out and just relax a little.


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