Plenty More Fish

PTH2009

Plenty More Fish In The Sea

ITS ALL A LOAD OF COBBLES IMO.

I DONT KNW IS IT ME OR THE WORLD WE LIVE IN BUT I JUST CANT FIND SOMEONE AND AM GETTING PRETTY SICK OF IT.

WHY CANT I BE LIKE SOME GUYS THAT JUST FIND SOMEONE VERY QUICK ??

DATING SITES DONT WORK FOR ME,
IM TOO SHY TO FIND SOMEONE OUT ON THE TOWN

WHAT AM I GOING TO DO.

GETTING OLD AND RUNNING OUT OF TIME I THINK

IM EVEN IN A STATE NOW WEITHER TO GO TO MY SISTERS WEDDING OR NOT BECAUSE I CANT FACE BEEN THE ONLY SINGLE GUY IN THE FAMILY

John Mason

you are what 22 - you are not old or running out of time.

you need to chill out everyone hates desperate people

and GO BACK TO YOUR COUNSELLOR

Esoteric_

You're the same age as me! Come on, you're way too young to be thinking like that!

Not to be rude but if you're shy and desperate, of course you're not gonna attract a girl. What attracted me to my boyfriend was his CONFIDENCE. Talk to someone about developing your confidence and you'll have more luck.

Zen65

PTH2009 wrote: »

WHY CANT I BE LIKE SOME GUYS THAT JUST FIND SOMEONE VERY QUICK ??

Those guys very often lose them just as quickly! Stop comparing yourself to other people; in life there will always be others with more, or less, talent or fortune than yourself.

As another poster said, you need to develop your own confidence to attract people. The best way to do this is to take up an activity (sport, dancing, playing music, drama, whatever) and become good at it, or at least be enthusiastic about it. That enthusiasm spreads to other areas of your life and pretty soon you've built up a skill of which you can be proud and confident.

If you're in your 20's you have a lot of years of life ahead of you, and it's a complete waste of a life to be bitter already.

Be at peace,

Z

Red Hand

It may seem at times that it's a lonely road, but you have to make what you have of yourself.

Focus on yourself and what makes you happy as regards your interests. Cause you will face rejection and the only thing you have to fall back on is yourself.

bodhrandude

Hey man your liucky your still fairly young, Im 46 and still single, I got the internet now and a free right hand so I stopped worrying long ago, but I do feel like **** sometimes. Some of my more successful friends though argue that being with women is not worth the hassle and sometimes I can see the horrible arguments that happen within a relationship, family etc...
I agree about online dating sites, they are a load of tripe really, when I was a member od Adult Friend Finder all my bloody choices matched up were seemingly in South Africa for some reason, Im damned if Im travelling all the way there. All I can say is keep smiling and dont stare at every girl like I do sometimes. Sometimes I say or do really stupid things to distract myself from going crazy with the loneliness or smoke my brains out with some doob.