F**k buddy question?

LegacyUser

Hi everyone,

I'm recently out of a long term relationship and back out there on the scene. Not up for anything serious just now, but wanna have some fun. I've been seeing this guy and we have discussed having some fun on a casual basis, as we are both seriously attracted to one another, a F**k buddy arrangement so to speak!

We happened to be texting last night and her comes out with the line " well if we fall for each other we'll go with that". I am now feeling a little confused as to what exactly he meant. I'm American, and I'm not exactly sure if this means falling in love, or taking it more seriously or what?

I'm gonna ask him exactly what he meant by this when we meet up, but would like some ideas as to maybe what this means in Ireland.

Thanks, and look forward to reading any replys

LegacyUser

sascha2020 wrote: »

Hi everyone,

I'm recently out of a long term relationship and back out there on the scene. Not up for anything serious just now, but wanna have some fun. I've been seeing this guy and we have discussed having some fun on a casual basis, as we are both seriously attracted to one another, a F**k buddy arrangement so to speak!

We happened to be texting last night and her comes out with the line " well if we fall for each other we'll go with that". I am now feeling a little confused as to what exactly he meant. I'm American, and I'm not exactly sure if this means falling in love, or taking it more seriously or what?

I'm gonna ask him exactly what he meant by this when we meet up, but would like some ideas as to maybe what this means in Ireland.

Thanks, and look forward to reading any replys

He means fall in love. :-)

Asphyxia

He means if you fall in love with each other you'll get serious. IMO I think this guy must already have strong feelings for you or he wouldn't of text something like that.

nicechick!

sascha2020 wrote: »

Hi everyone,

I'm recently out of a long term relationship and back out there on the scene. Not up for anything serious just now, but wanna have some fun. I've been seeing this guy and we have discussed having some fun on a casual basis, as we are both seriously attracted to one another, a F**k buddy arrangement so to speak!

We happened to be texting last night and her comes out with the line " well if we fall for each other we'll go with that". I am now feeling a little confused as to what exactly he meant. I'm American, and I'm not exactly sure if this means falling in love, or taking it more seriously or what?

I'm gonna ask him exactly what he meant by this when we meet up, but would like some ideas as to maybe what this means in Ireland.

Thanks, and look forward to reading any replys

aaaaaaaarrrrrr don't go there!! their already thinking ahead

you need to have little or no emotional attachment to having a buddy otherwise it will end in tears and trust me not everyone can do this

fungun

yeah he means if you both fall for each other you could start a reln.

sounds like he has feelings already, **** buddy reln with this guy isnt going to work im sorry to say

Laisurg

Sounds like he might want something more than casual sex, i think you should just let him know that you're not looking for anything serious in the near future.