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  • 22-07-2011 11:23am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    In a 2year relationship, me n the bf live abroad I am due to join the army as I always wanted too we are both young he 19 and me 20 , we love each other but fight too much , and sex life is gone down the drain . I want to stay with him but I feel I am ruining his life , he neer had much sexual partners while I have . I will be going away soon to train for 14 weeks but I don't know what to do its very complicated I feel myself attracted to other people but I still care about him just I wish we could work it out just don't know how to. we both feel like an old married couple


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  • #2
    Kevin Duffy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    Did the fighting begin around the same time you told him you'd be going to basic training soon?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Reading between the lines it looks like your saying the relationship has run its course. Your fighting alot, your going away soon, your both young, your not interested in sex with him and your atttracted to other people. You even say you feel like staying with him is ruining his life. I think thats probably not the case, but it sounds like you think its time for you both to go your sepparate ways. Of course its hard to decide to leave someone you care about but if you do think its time to leave, your better off doing it before it drags into resentment. The fact that your leaving soon might be the opportunity to let it go.


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