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Why am I freaking out?

  • 20-07-2011 4:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Long story short; me and the LD gf broke up in Feb, but since June we have been getting things back on track. We have both visited eachother and agreed to try again...

    We txt/call/skype everyday just keeping things short and sweet until she comes back here on Friday for 2 weeks. But the last 2 days she has been so distant to the point of ignoring me. This is unusual for her. The break up was due to her freaking out about the whole LDR thing and it being too hard.

    Why am I freaking out so badly thinking something is wrong and debating telling her not to bother coming over in 2 days?


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  • #2
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Why dont you ask her whats wrong?


  • #3
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    notsigninginforthisone wrote: »
    Why am I freaking out so badly thinking something is wrong and debating telling her not to bother coming over in 2 days?

    So you're thinking of effectively calling a halt to it because you are speculating that all is not well? Have you actually communicated this to her? Have you asked her what's wrong and why the apparent shift? Don't you think it's better do this than some knee-jerk reaction to something you're not sure about?


  • #4
    Juicyfruit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 240 ✭✭Juicyfruit


    Could be that she's busy getting organised for her 2 week trip and since she knows she's going to be seeing you in a few days doesn't need to be constantly contacting you as she would when you're apart for long periods.

    Think you may be overreacting slightly OP.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here.

    Thanks for the advice guys, everythings all well and good again!

    I think it's far too easy to get silly and start freaking out over nothing sometimes when you care a lot about someone.

    Guess I was just a bit insecure about everything!!


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