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problem with friend

  • 19-07-2011 7:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    i'm having a bit of a problem with a close friend. Well we used to be close but I moved away for college but we still saw wach other at weekends/holidays and stuff.

    The problem is that we've both changed. She's stuck in a rut with her job and despite giving her advie on how to change things, she continues to complain. We're friends but lately she's been rude to people. I don't know how much longer we will be friends if she keeps doing this or as long as i continue to ignore it.. i'd be a bit weak in bringing somethin like this up.

    I don't know what to do as we've drifted apart so much and i cant see the situation changing. Should I bring it up or jus keep in less contact?


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  • #2
    premierlass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 156 ✭✭premierlass


    This is advice that I heard for a similar situation: let her know that if you are talking to her in person or on the phone, you will give her five minutes to talk about her job before you change the subject. In other words, let her have her vent time and then be firm that you won't listen to any more.


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