Just need a rant

nonsmoker

Needed to rant a bit cause I'm in shock at a tirade of abuse I just got through text messages this evening.

Bumped into this guy I kind of knew already through a mutual friend about a month ago, he asked me out so we went out, he asked to go out again and I said yes, I wasnt that keen on him but thought I'd give it a go anyway but it turned out he wasnt able to make it. We were still texting an odd time and he asked me last week if we would be goin out again and I said no, he said fair enough.

This evening he asked if I would go out with him on Saturday night, I said I didnt think it would be a good idea and have plans anyway.

Next I get a text from him - You are ugly, we (him and the mutual friend) laugh at you everytime we see you, I was drunk when I met you that time because I wouldnt meet you sober.

I replied and said I was glad I found out what he was really like and told him not to text me again.

His next text 'mutual friend' said you are still a dog that no-one wants.

My reply was he was pathetic

His next text said sorry he was having some family trouble, I replied back and told him I was sorry about the family stuff and told him to f*ck off

His last text - f*ck you, you fat ugly tramp, hope you crash your car and do us all a favour

Cant believe he came out with so much stuff. I was trying to not lower myself by throwing insults at him, but f*ck thats the kinda abuse you get when you are up front with someone you dont want to date.

LegacyUser

Sorry you had to go through that.

The only positive is that at least you didn't have to sit through a date with him or even a brief relationship because clearly this guy would never have shown his true colours until a percieved rejection.

He has serious problems.

Unfortunately, in my experience, dating exposes us to some unwell people. It just comes with the territory. I had a nasty experience with someone I'd dated who out of the blue sent me some really nasty texts. At the time I was really so hurt and perplexed, but years later I see that was him acting out his issues.

So chin up, you're going to meet a lovely guy eventually! Text back or not, it makes no difference, in his mind you're already an horrible rejecting woman... so save your credit!

Sardonicat

You summed it up yourself: he is pathetic. How old is he that he can't accept a polite rejection without tantrumming like a child? He'd want to be careful sending abusive messages like that. If he continues tell him you'll be showing the texts to the gards and dont respond after that.

I am a friend

Oh my God, he is a nasty nut job... Do keep the texts, show them to your mutual friend and make sure you are not left in his company again alone. What age is this guy?

tallaghtmick

Post his number somewhere....works for me ......i sense a ban coming for that:o

Janet1986

Block his number!!! :mad:

Don't be too surprised if you start getting texts from unknown numbers because it will bother him that you turned him down!

Continue to block each number you don't recognise, he will soon get bored and move on.

Trust me i know :eek: