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Don't Really Like My New Friends

  • 10-07-2011 4:08pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I sincerely hope this doesn't sound like a horrible thread.

    I needed to make some new friends after a relationship ended and all of my friends have moved away permanently so I made a few friends online and initially it was nice getting to know them. But I've realised now that they are no fun and they don't want to go out and just have a laugh. I love going clubbing but they like sitting around in each others houses and its all just so boring. I had a really bad few years personally and now I just want some fun and laughs. Also I'd like to meet some nice guys and one of them is actually afraid of guys (no experience at all) and would never go out to try to meet anyone.

    I'd say if any of my proper mates came home I'd probably ditch the new ones. Am I being too harsh or is it fair enough that this happens trying to make friends this way?


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  • #2
    Whynotme
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    It doesn't sound like you have much in common with them so no you're not wrong. Have you thought of biting the bullet and going to places on your own? Or going to dance classes where you will meet people with the same interests? You need to spread your net a bit further and find new people to mix with. pm me if you want details of sites that organise nights out for singletons. Might be suitable for what you're looking for.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Whynotme wrote: »
    It doesn't sound like you have much in common with them so no you're not wrong. Have you thought of biting the bullet and going to places on your own? Or going to dance classes where you will meet people with the same interests? You need to spread your net a bit further and find new people to mix with. pm me if you want details of sites that organise nights out for singletons. Might be suitable for what you're looking for.

    I actually have gone to things alone. I'd much rather be on my own than with someone I'm not crazy about just for the sake of having some company.

    Thanks for your reply. You're dead right. I just need people who I've more in common with. I'm not sure I'd be into nites out organised for singles cos then its like you're up for grabs and I don't want to push things that way. Sometimes they are like a group blind date !!


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