does she like me?

partyndbs

well theres this 5/10(high standards lad) im friends with, shes totally cute and ideal girl to date(emotional lad)....thing is dunno if she feels same or not. we live pretty close so shes a hang out kinda friend, not just some1 i see at parties or the odd time. know her since i was a kid but only start hanging out recently.
anyway am a good lookin guy and it could be said id be punching below my weight(i dont think this coz if i did i wouldnt be on here askin u guys id be meetin her now)
anyway here are a few signs:
1: we were drinking a couple of months back and we ended up down the beach after and she rested her head against my shoulder. my friend says that any1 could have seen she was waiting for me to make a move on her that night, he even walked away.....

2.at her party i was talking to her godfather and she came up to me after saying how he thought i was a good guy and had his approval: ha would seem like a dead giveaway.

3.sometimes but not enough for it to be obvious her best friend who im also really good friends with has been like 'j wants to sit beside her boyfriend' or introducing me at the party to girl i likes relatives at her party as her bf. this hasn't come up enough for it to be a big clue that she does but just thinking of a few incidents.

4.we were sitting watching a movie in her house the other night and she start kinda pushing her feet against my leg subtly. before u think oh friendzone we are good friends but shes shy around me like i am her. she might consider me as that cause i am kinda nice but shes not the type to do somethin like that like i said shes really shy.

like when were just hangin out she be rly shy like we are good mates, 1 of my closest female friends but we dont really talk when in our group(shy lad) but like when its just the two of us, which is rare shes not as shy.

already kinda posted this on after hours think will get other advice here.

p.s its not just a case of askin her out coz i live so close/know her so long and know her family so would be awkward kinda

dee.

You're probably going to get the same advice here as you did in AH (which was good advice so I'm unsure why you're asking a second time)

ask her out, if she says no it's not the end of the world.

Taltos

I think you should leave this poor girl alone and stop leading her on.

Why? Just re-read what you posted.
"Punching below my weight" - if you don't think this then why the hell say it - even in jest....
"5/10"

I'm sorry but in my opinion you either have no/little respect for this PERSON or you have some growing up to do yet. Looks fade matey, however the pain your comments could cause this woman should she ever find out what you think of her physically may not...

Clearly she is into you.

booboo88

is he giving her marks out of ten or is this code for something else?

partyndbs

sunflower27 wrote: »

Yikes, I read it that the OP is saying he is 5/10. Apologies.

OP, are you joking? If you don't think she is good enough for you (doubtful) why are you on here too nervous to ask her out?

This is all a bit confusing.

know what u mean blud but hear me out....i think she is cute, real cute but just had to give youz a ratin u know what i mean like, think it be a lot different if it was some 10/10(doesnt exist except 4 shakira ppl like that anyway) so 5/10 puts it in context. the reason im on here nervous is coz i like her so much

partyndbs

Taltos wrote: »

I'm sorry but in my opinion you either have no/little respect for this PERSON or you have some growing up to do yet. Looks fade matey, however the pain your comments could cause this woman should she ever find out what you think of her physically may not...

Clearly she is into you.

I think shes a babe.

Taltos

partyndbs wrote: »

know what u mean blud but hear me out....i think she is cute, real cute but just had to give youz a ratin u know what i mean like, think it be a lot different if it was some 10/10(doesnt exist except 4 shakira ppl like that anyway) so 5/10 puts it in context. the reason im on here nervous is coz i like her so much

OP - I really hope you rethink your view of women. Rating a woman is not only degrading to her - it really says a hell of a lot more about you as a person.

So either you are
a) really young - eg 11 or 12
b) nothing I can repeat here without being banned.

Let me put it this way - how would you feel hearing someone objectify either your mother or your sister (if you have one)?
Trust me - thinking like that will be a surefire way to either have very shallow relationships or to be very lonely... Think about it some more please.
In the meantime - still suggest you leave this girl alone.
If you want a reason why then search for the thread here where a really great girl was made to feel like sh1t because her BF told her she was overweight - not cool - and not right - her weight was ideal (if not little on low side) but seriously not cool - suggesting this so you can see the impact your kind of thinking has on a person...

partyndbs

i think shes unbelievable but if u were a lad on the street you would rate her as that just saying. ppl tell me why dont u go for someone whose good lookin and im like i think shes really good looking.

partyndbs

ye i am ye. i think it kinda is a big deal coz when its your close friend its a much bigger deal than just some girl you kinda know or see every so often.


thing is i need as much encouragement that she feel same thats why need more answers

Distorted

I think you're more interested in points scoring about how a girl is interested in you even though you haven't done anything about it. If you are interested in her, ask her out. If not, continue as you are, as she will soon get fed up and forget about you.

By the way, confidence and sociability can cause a 5/10 on looks to become a 9 or 10 quite easily, and vice versa. I know a really good looking guy but he has such poor social skills, he comes across as a bit of a fool. Which is a bit tragic, because as he gets older, he's losing his looks too.

beks101

What does it matter what other lads on the street would 'rate' her, how is that relevant? What have they got to do with it? Would you be ashamed to score a girl who's not smoking hot to the majority of the male population, would it embarrass you in some way? Because if that's the case then I really hope for your sake that you are 15 or younger.

Otherwise walk away and let this girl meet someone who likes and respects her for who she is and isn't hung up on who she isn't.

partyndbs

what difference does it make i fancy her, the question is if she rates me enough to fancy me in return....