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Losing contacts

  • 29-06-2011 1:30am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi

    This seems to affect me all the time but now I'm stuck in this period between getting out of college and finding a job however long it may last so its worse now. People I used to know and used to text are drifting away. Now this happened all the time and although I do my best to stay in touch it seems like people don't want it

    I must have got rid of 10s of numbers from my phone in the past few weeks cause they wont even bother to reply to a simple text, and if I called them up out of the blue they'd probably think I'm weird or they'd have no time or they just wouldnt answer.

    Its hard to imagine that I done anything to annoy these people other than send the odd text or two every few months to try and strike up a chat. and I'm sure if I ran into any of these people on the street they would stop to chat.

    Some of these can probably be explained away because they're girls after finding boyfriends who might be jealous or suspicious of them, I know I had to do this myself at one point and I feel terrible over it but I was trying to save the relationship I was although I know now I shouldn't have bothered.

    Now I'm just wondering could I be doing something wrong here, I know I should get out more at this stage and meet new people but how do I prevent it in the future and how do I prevent losing touch with those who are left?


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