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  • 26-06-2011 1:58pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I got really drunk yesterday and to cut a long story short I ended up kissing (French kissing) a transvestite or transsexual. I'm not gay and only did it because I was really drunk and because, to be honest, he really looked like a girl and was really convincing and hot, fake boobs, fake lips etc. I just got confused or something, I can't explain it. Anyway, I'm mortified because I'm sure that one of my mates must have seen it and if I know him like I think I know him he has probably told nearly everyone we know by now. I'm afraid to turn on my phone. How can I deal with this? Should I deny that I did it and say he's telling lies? Sorry, this is a bit messed up.


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  • #2
    Vicxas
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,449 ✭✭✭✭Vicxas


    Outside of this do you find men attractive?


  • #3
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Vicxas wrote: »
    Outside of this do you find men attractive?

    He said he isnt gay :rolleyes:

    OP, there is not much you can do to turn back time so I suggest you turn on the phone and just bluster your way through it... There is no running cos sooner or later you have to face people.

    Sure you did no harm and just let on it was a girl you were kissing. No need to 'confess'...


  • #4
    Vicxas
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,449 ✭✭✭✭Vicxas


    I am a friend wrote: »
    He said he isnt gay :rolleyes:

    OP, there is not much you can do to turn back time so I suggest you turn on the phone and just bluster your way through it... There is no running cos sooner or later you have to face people.

    Sure you did no harm and just let on it was a girl you were kissing. No need to 'confess'...

    I was trying to determine if he ever felt like that before. Id say chalk it down to a bad mistake and if anyone questions you, you were kissing what you thought was a girl.


  • #5
    Kevin Duffy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    For a start, turn on the phone before people think you actually have something to hide.


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Unless your mate has photo evidence just deny it. It'll blow over so try not to worry.


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  • #7
    lace
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 400 ✭✭lace


    If he/she looked hot at the time, then where's the harm in it?

    Start by turning your phone on. It could be that your friends also thought it was a girl you were kissing. It could be that they noticed it was a transvestite but were too drunk to be sure. It's more likely that, by worrying about it, you're getting yourself all worked up for nothing.

    If people are taking the mickey, you can deal with it then. If your friends can't prove it was a man you could always just deny it. But if he/she was lookin hot at the time there's no harm in owning up and having a laugh about it. :D


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