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I date flirts, and it tends to end badly

  • 24-06-2011 5:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi guys,

    I have a tendency to date flirty, bubbly women, and it usually ends badly. I have a recent girl that I am courting in work, but I am wondering if it is going down the same route.

    Basically, there is a girl I work with (in a bar) who is a total flirt with everyone, including me. I flirt back because I like her, and we have a little flirt war going. The problem is that I like her. Apart from flirting, we haven't had the chance to go any further.
    It is odd because she told me that she 'likes the chase', and I am a little like that too. I don't believe she would tell me that if she had romantic feelings for me. I am early twenties, and she is only 20 too, so maybe that is why she is a flirt?

    Basically, I like her....BUT I have a feeling that she could be bad news for me.

    How do I stop this somewhat masochistic streak in me?!

    Thanks.


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  • #2
    I am a friend
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    Why do you want to stop it - you are only 20 so just enjoy...


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    areflirtsbadnews wrote: »
    Hi guys,

    I have a tendency to date flirty, bubbly women, and it usually ends badly. I have a recent girl that I am courting in work, but I am wondering if it is going down the same route.

    Basically, there is a girl I work with (in a bar) who is a total flirt with everyone, including me. I flirt back because I like her, and we have a little flirt war going. The problem is that I like her. Apart from flirting, we haven't had the chance to go any further.
    It is odd because she told me that she 'likes the chase', and I am a little like that too. I don't believe she would tell me that if she had romantic feelings for me. I am early twenties, and she is only 20 too, so maybe that is why she is a flirt?

    Basically, I like her....BUT I have a feeling that she could be bad news for me.

    How do I stop this somewhat masochistic streak in me?!

    Thanks.

    People are different. Just go with the flow and enjoy it and dont make any assumptions. Fate has a way of deciding where you are meant to be at any given time so if it is meant to work out it will come together eventually.


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