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So confused!

  • 24-06-2011 12:22pm
    #1
    RonBonJovi90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7 ✭


    Hey, need some advice here. I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year now (1y this week actually) I love her to bits and I've never felt like this about any girl before she's gorgeous but she's my best friend too.

    Anyway, lately I've been feeling like she just doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. She's been doing exams so I havent seen her as much as I would have liked but when I do she just seems disinterested, like she wants to be somewhere else. It feels like the spark we used to have is gone.

    I'm terrified that she's gonna finish with me and so any time she makes a disparaging comment or doesn't text me back I just take it that she's sick of me. She hasn't said anything like this tho, I think it's completely in my head.

    The last two times we've gone out we've ended up fighting but last night she made a comment taking the piss and I just lost it, told her to **** off and walked away, she came to find me and ask me what's wrong and I couldnt explain, I dont know why I got so angry but I was in bits! It ended up ruining the night and now we're not talking, she said she doesnt want to see me for a few days and that just makes me feel worse.

    I dont want to lose her but I have no idea what to do about this. Sorry about the long message I just needed to get it all out of my head


Comments

  • #2
    squonk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,990 ✭✭✭squonk


    She might be under pressure with the exams going on at the moment and worried about them.

    You two need to talk and discuss this really. You need to tell her how you feel. Maybe she's having reservations too.

    Unfortunately it sounds though like this relationship might have run it's course, for her at any rate. She might be realising that she wants to end it but isn't quite at the stage yet where she can.


  • #3
    Moomoo1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Moomoo1


    I think you should explain to her how you are feeling. Being snapped at and having arguments during exams doesn't come accross very well

    you should stop acting like this, less it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. That said, she shouldn't make disparaging comments either, and you should tell her that.


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Let her get her exams out of the way first and then you need to meet up,
    air your concerns and then decide whether it has a future. It doesn't sound great but she might be totally consumed with her exams so you'll have a clearer picture once they are out of the way. You do need to talk to her though.


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