what would you do if...

ENMcD

all your family & friends hated your boyfriend?

angeldelight

think long and hard about why, and am I missing something? One or two people not liking him ok but all of them? Very unlikely to be nothing in it in my opinion

Blush_01

The people who love you usually want you to be happy and want to see you with someone who is going to value you as much as they do.

If everyone who loves you hates him, it's because there's something (or a number of things) that makes them think that person isn't him. By a long shot.

Stheno

moved from tll to PI

Ickle Magoo

As my family & friends love me and only want the best for me, I'd have to ask myself why they thought the relationship toxic and my boyfriend awful enough to warrant obviously not liking him or me being with him.

You have to ask yourself OP, do you have awful family and friends or a bad choice of boyfriend?

Miss Fluff

How do you know this to be the case? And if it is true, what are the reasons for everyone who cares about you to hate him?

starlit

I would try not to let it affect my relationship with said boyfriend if I loved him and we loved each other and really liked each other. I would think about it though. I would respect my family and friends thoughts of him if they didn't like him I would take into account. I would probably want their approval more than anything and go against their judgement of him for a while but eventually will see their side of things if I am being honest with myself that there was something not to like about him then I would respect their opinion of him and end the relationship with him if it meant that it would affect my relationship with my family and friends. No man is worth that believe me. Its all in the name of love, if he is a nice guy good guy ya stay with him but if he is a bad boy or they think he is a looser then well I wouldn't stay with him and dump him at some point. Other people's feelings count a lot and I would be concerned what people think of him and what they think of me when it would come to that sort of situation.

Go with whats in your heart OP distinguish what your heart and head is saying and most importantly go with your gut instinct which is often right!! Good luck.

ENMcD

thanks mod
its actually not about me
one my close friends is with a guy 4 three years.. they broke up last year an 2 days later he was wih another woman so we told her she cried etc but got back with him 2 weeks later..
for the last few months i've been hearing nothing but bad stories that he's a cheat was with other girls when they broke up etc
only prob is if we (my friends and i) tell her she is gonna want proof basically a picture!!!