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dont like who im turning into!!

  • 11-06-2011 4:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi all- like title says - i really dont like who i am turning into after recent break up.
    story is was going out with guy for 6 months- mad about each other- then he totally changed- split up (are broken up since january so really was hopeing i would be well over it by now) he has stayed in contact. i realised this was too hard month ago and have stopped replying to him in an attempt to get over him completely.

    i just do not like the person i am turning into at all. i really dont want sound crude here! but sex with him was fantastic and i suppose that has taken time to get over...but real issue is that it seems to have turned into a pattern for me to just want guys for sex when i meet them out now! i know how bad that sounds...i have never had one night stand but last 5-6 guys i have met on nights out, ended up texting, meeting ,going on for a few dates i have just wanted to have sex with them very soon and then thats it i dont want to meet them anymore. hate person im becoming as in that i seem to be craving this attention- i was never like this before.


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  • #2
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Youre staying in contact with him? You still have feelings for him?

    This is an abstract of my imagination, but is this a situation where you a continuing to be "friends" with him, and are sleeping around with other guys to satisfy the sexual component of this relationship with your ex that you are currently not having?

    Either way do you feel that whatever contact you are having with your ex is healthy for you? If not, cut it.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    we were in contact up to about month ago but since then i have cut all contact and yes it has helped majorly. i dont have feelings i once had for him at all. yes im still attracted to him but purely on looks and not him as person anymore. so that part is good. no way would i sleep with him again just for sake of it. just what concerns me is how i am moving way too fast with guys and prob giving out all wrong signals.


  • #4
    tawnyowl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 511 ✭✭✭tawnyowl


    unregisteres wrote: »
    we were in contact up to about month ago but since then i have cut all contact and yes it has helped majorly. i dont have feelings i once had for him at all. yes im still attracted to him but purely on looks and not him as person anymore. so that part is good. no way would i sleep with him again just for sake of it. just what concerns me is how i am moving way too fast with guys and prob giving out all wrong signals.

    Do you relate to the guys you're now dating in a way you used to relate to your ex rather than your previous exes?


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