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  • 07-06-2011 7:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone.

    I'll make this brief i met a nice guy a while ago we got on quite well it was like we knew eachother for years,anyway we took eachothers numbers and we were texting for a good while in the hope to meet again,anyway that never happened because of distance and anyway the texting stopped. I havent been in contact with him since early april. My question is i would really like to text him and try to give it another go at trying to meet but i'm worried he might think i'm weird due to the time that has elapsed.

    I just need some advice on it, would it be a good or bad idea?


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  • #2
    Mc Kenzie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 470 ✭✭Mc Kenzie


    hey,

    i know alota guys arent that into texting unless its to arrange something in the near future or at that time. i dont text people myself unless im goin to see them or somethin....(im female by the way)
    what you could do is text or call saying youll be in the place you met maybe:confused:...at such an such time n date if he wanted to meet.

    and dont send uselesschit chatjust get to the point is what i think

    if hes not interested or dont reply move on...you tried:)


  • #3
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    If you would like to see him then text (if you arent comfortable ringing him) and ask him does he want to catch up.Worst thing he can say is no so you have nothing to lose.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks everyone, i have decided i will text him but what will i say, will i go straight into it and ask him if he would be intrested in meeting again or do i just text a simple text first and see if he replies and then ask him.


  • #5
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Personally I would say something along the lines of

    "Hey,Ive been thinking about you and was wondering if you would like to meet up for a drink/coffee?"

    Try and not get bogged down in chit chat.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    hey thanks everyone for your advice. I did text but i didn't get a reply back but i'm glad i did it at least i know now


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  • #7
    Mc Kenzie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 470 ✭✭Mc Kenzie


    Should I wrote: »
    hey thanks everyone for your advice. I did text but i didn't get a reply back but i'm glad i did it at least i know now

    exactly, and now you can look out to meet some new HOT fellas;)


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