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  • 07-06-2011 1:49pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Going unreg for this one...don't know if I just need to vent or whether this is a big problem.
    Bit of background,I have been with my OH for about 18 months,I have very much fallen for him and see a future together but at the minute I am feeling a bit fed up! We live about half an hour from each other so not a huge distance really but I do all the travelling and staying in his house ,I still live at home so obviously he is not comfortable with staying in my house which is fair enough but its at a point after 18 months where I am sick of constantly living out of a bag.

    Even to go out for a night we go out in his home town even things like dinner etc are done there, anytime I suggest my hometown its a no we'd have to get taxis etc etc. He works very early mornings and late nights so lately at weekends as he is vey busy with work I have found myself getting up at 8am to go home as he is leaving for work and as he shares a house with 3 other guys I feel uncomfortable staying there without him!

    I suppose im just looking for peoples views etc before I approach him...do I suggest moving into together to make things easier? Or do I get a place and make him come stay with me...i'm at a loss as to what to do but its really getting me down lately.


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  • #2
    car.kar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 101 ✭✭car.kar


    You should only suggest moving in together if its osmething you both actually want, not just because its convinient. And again, only get your own place if you want to and afford it. Personally, I think your OH needs to cop on a bit and make the effort. Yes, maybe your parents' house is out of the way but so what? Getting up at 8am and having to leave because he's up early hardly suits you either. Your title says it all really; sometimes he'll just have to give a little, that's how relationships work.


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