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I wanna move out

  • 05-06-2011 9:32pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I started a new job in a new city so myself and another guy from work decided to get a house together. We got on and all that but he started to annoy me a lot as I see him pretty much 24/7.

    For the last few weeks I have been trying to distance myself from him but the harder I try the harder he tries to be closer. Our lease is up soon and I want to tell him that I want to move out and live with strangers as living with him is pretty hard and that not just seeing him 24/7.

    The only problem is I dont want to end on bad terms as we work together and I dont mind him that much its just seeing him all the time is killing me.

    How should I break it to him?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    You could just say you want to live with 'more' people (i.e. house that's not just 2 people) or meet new people or something like that. Just give enough notice so that he can find a new place.

    Are you a guy or a girl? i.e. is this a case of romantic attraction on his part? That'll make it hard. Otherwise, it should be fine. Just make sure to stay friendly with him after the move - i.e. go out for drinks semi-regularly, etc. and you should stay on good terms.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    How soon Is the lease up?

    Explain as you did here - it makes sense but don't leave it til the last minute and leave him stuck as that would be unfair and is likely to really p him
    Off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ha no we are both straight guys.

    Lease is up in just over two months so I was thinking of telling him in a months time. Would that be enough time?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    No tell him now to give him a good chance to find a place he likes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Yeah, you can drop hints now. Just casually mention that you're thinking of getting a different place when the lease is up.

    I'd say as long as you remain friendly with him and invite him to do things, it'll be fine.


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