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Heart Broken

  • 04-06-2011 11:00pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Earlier on today I essentially said goodbye to someone I care deeply about. She is moving home for the summer and it is likely that I will be moving elsewhere in the country or emigrating completely, as I have finished college. We were a couple for a while and have always been extraordinarily close, barely going a day or more without texting/talking online since we first started talking, back in January. Though it is a relatively short period of time, she became a massive part of my life and now she is essentially gone and there's the chance I may never see her again. We will likely talk online, but it's never going to be the same.

    I feel heartbroken right now and have cried briefly in my bedroom.

    I hate this feeling.


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  • #2
    Hamiltonion
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 416 ✭✭Hamiltonion


    Its surprising how close you can get to someone in a few months mate, I was seeing a girl for two months who I found out was cheating on me and using me, luckily I had the sense to kick her to the kerb.

    Do you think that you could somehow work towards being together? If so I'd pursue it, but only if you're as sure as you can be that shes worth it. Otherwise I'd advise keeping busy and no contact, it seriously makes things about 100 times harder.

    Best of luck, it'll pass


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    We broke up just under two months ago but since then we have still been extremely close. She just decided she wasn't ready for the relationship, which I can understand somewhat. The thing that makes it all so much worse is that I know we still love each other, but she was moving away for the summer and I'm finished college, so there's a chance I won't be around anymore.


  • #4
    Hamiltonion
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 416 ✭✭Hamiltonion


    The way I'd look at it is that if two people want to be together enough they'll find a way or compromise something to achieve it. Any time I've been told 'I'm not ready for a relationship, I'm not in the right place at the moment etc' its just a line to avoid any kind of confrontation.

    I know that sounds harsh but it took me ages to learn, its hard not to believe those kind of words when they're coming from someone you love


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