Should I meet him??

LegacyUser

got a text from a guy I was seeing almost three years ago about a month ago. I was totally in shock that I heard from him. We didn’t go out just met up now and again for about a year but nothing serious, as sometimes we might not meet for a month or so. We got on great, really nice guy but it didn’t end it just fizzled out. We have been in contact on and off since he text last month, nothing major just stuff like what’s been going on with each of us etc etc. He’s just suggested going out together for a night out. What should I do??

Is meeting him after all this time a bit silly? I’m just wondering given we never went together, were very causal when we were ‘seeing’ each other and also that that was a few years ago, am I mad to even contemplate this????????

It’s not the issue of having to talk about the past or what we’ll talk about but when we were ‘seeing’ each other all those years ago, he never really met my friends or family, as I said this was very casual between us.

Please, I need help!!

Miss Fluff

confusedaboutwhattodo wrote: »

It’s not the issue of having to talk about the past or what we’ll talk about but when we were ‘seeing’ each other all those years ago, he never really met my friends or family, as I said this was very casual between us.

I'm confused as to what the issue is Why should it make a difference if he met your friends or family? Why would this taint your decision now as to whether you're going to meet up with him??

coolcat63

If you want to see him, do. If you don't, er, don't. I'm not sure what the 'issue' is in this case?

dixiefly

I agree with the ohers, its kind of a pointless thread.

There was no previous relationship to taint this one. It's a simpe decision as to whether to go out with him or not.

LegacyUser

why did you put 'seeing' in quotes later in the OP? could you be leaving out information which might make this situation seem somehow troublesome? as others have said, it doesn't seem to be, based on what you've said.

MagicMarker

Sounds like he wants a booty call, if you're happy with that, go for it.