First-time Issue.

LegacyUser

Hey,

Recently had sex for the first time. It was interesting but I couldn't ejaculate. I am not too worried about this, as I believe its not that uncommon. I don't have any hard evidence on this but my gut tells me so.

I think there are a variety of reasons why I couldn't. I had masturbated the day before and had some alcohol when it happened. Also, I was using a free condom I had received, called a 'Mojo' condom, which could be part of the problem as it might have been too thick etc.

Just wondering if this is a common issue for lads.

Thanks.

bellylint

heya op,
yea mate it happens. I think it took me about 6 years before I started ejaculating through sex. I think I just got more and more comfortable with the people I was seeing, but that was me, and different strokes for different folks. Dont worry about it. It happens to folks, sometimes more than just a once of occasion (as it was for me) n is nothing to be worried about.

LegacyUser

6 years!?!? Jesus i'll just give up on sex if that's the case! Its not worth that much :P

Nah, i'm not that worried about it actually, just more curious.

Thanks.

mikemac

Not to worry OP

It's common as you say

Lay off the alcohol and don't masturbate for a few days if you're meeting this girl again

aidan24326

firstimer wrote: »

I think there are a variety of reasons why I couldn't. I had masturbated the day before and had some alcohol when it happened. Also, I was using a free condom I had received, called a 'Mojo' condom, which could be part of the problem as it might have been too thick etc.

Just wondering if this is a common issue for lads.

Thanks.

Far more likely to be the alcohol than the masturbation (since you say that was the previous day).

LegacyUser

This happened to me the first time as well. I put it down to the fact that the pressure surrounding my penis was a lot different to the grip I would have used when masterbating.

(just don't get caught finishing yourself off in the toilet afterwards-that didn't go down well)

minidazzler

I had the same issue with the first 5 girls I had sex with OP, it took having one girl on the regular to train my body to ejaculate on cue. Just keep at it and you will get used to it. And besides, during the time it takes you will A) Feel like a mack daddy, and Have a damn good time. It's about the journey, if you're all about the destination then take a flight.

BKtje

Personally I usually don't with a new girl till the 4th or 5th time. It has to do with how comfortable I feel with her to be honest.

LegacyUser

Ah right, as I thought. Perfectly normal

She's my gf so i'll get more chances

On a slightly different note, as I don't have experience, do different condoms really make any sort of a difference or are they all the same?

Thanks.