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Need advice about a girl

  • 25-05-2011 12:31pm
    #1
    declanmac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭


    So bout a year ago i was on a night out and this girl came up to me sayin she knew who i was and we started to chat n got on really well exchanged numbers,for a few weeks we started to text/facebook and was going super so i asked her out and she like said no in a polite humourous way.

    so with that i said fair enough left it at that and over a few months she stil facebooked and text me and on nights out we would hang out and leave the nightclub 2gether get food and share taxi home,nothing ever happened not that it was al i was looking for i started reallly falling for her and coudlnt help wanting to be near her.
    i did ease of cause it was driving me crazy not bein with a girl i was in love with and i knew a part of her wants to be with me,her 2 sisters are mad about me get on really well and they cant understand her why she wont give me a chance

    i tried stayin well away from her cause i couldnt take it anymore i kinda got over her and met other girls but id always hear sumthing from her i told her twice this eyar i couldnt continue being friends or whatever with her cos i was crazy about her and it was driving me mental and she understood,but ders stil contact from her
    One night recently i was out in Dublin and got a text from her sayin she was in Dublin too i hadnt told her i was in dublin but wanted to meet up after the nightclub which i did

    when i told her i couldnt stay friends cos i loved her n it was too hard she told me she interest in ay guy that she was destined to grow old alone,i know i could make her unreal happy

    Can anyone try to give me some sort of advice on what to do,its so annoying,should i cut off total contact??should i be patient she'll finally realise??
    thanks


Comments

  • #2
    G86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,660 ✭✭✭G86


    She's not interested in you as more than a friend; if you can accept that and be cool with it then there's no prob with you guys meeting up and hanging out. But if you're going to keep hanging on for her to 'realise' she's meant to be with you then it's not going to work. She's told you how it is, so you need to figure out if you can handle being a friend or if it's easier for you to walk away.


  • #3
    SugarHigh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    She's using you and if you allow it to happen then you deserve it to happen. Cut off contact and maybe chance your arm with the sister.


  • #4
    uch
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,020 ✭✭✭uch


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    She's using you and if you allow it to happen then you deserve it to happen. Cut off contact and maybe chance your arm with the sister.


    Good advice here, thats what I'd do

    21/25



  • #5
    G86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,660 ✭✭✭G86


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    Cut off contact and maybe chance your arm with the sister.

    Did I miss the part where he said her name was Kate Middleton???


  • #6
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    moved to PI


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