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Should i text him or leave it?

  • 24-05-2011 9:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    To explain quickly i met this guy over a month ago,we got on great all was going well.We had plans to meet again but it never happened due to certain things so the texting stopped, we havnt been in contact for a while now.

    The thing is i really would like to meet him again but i feel he may have lost interest due to not meeting again so i am kind of unsure whether to text or not i wouldnt even know what to say?

    I need some opinions on this so all help will be appreciated.


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  • #2
    Flojo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    anon 200 wrote: »
    To explain quickly i met this guy over a month ago,we got on great all was going well.We had plans to meet again but it never happened due to certain things so the texting stopped, we havnt been in contact for a while now.

    The thing is i really would like to meet him again but i feel he may have lost interest due to not meeting again so i am kind of unsure whether to text or not i wouldnt even know what to say?

    I need some opinions on this so all help will be appreciated.

    Just go for it hun! What have you got to lose?
    A simple "Hey how are you, fancy going for a coffee/drink/walk sometime?" should do it. Life is too short :)
    If you get a negative response, shrug it off and be proud you were brave enough to try!


  • #3
    Turtwig
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    If he's lost interest he has lost interest, but you won't know unless you try and if you don't you might always left be pondering 'what if'. Go for it.:)


  • #4
    coco_lola
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,208 ✭✭✭coco_lola


    Do it! We only ever regret the things we didnt do! You definitely wont see him if you don't text, so you either have something to gain by texting him, or you just remain in the same place you are now - not seeing him. I say go for it, and let us know how you get on :)


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    You've nothing to lose by texting him once more saying you'd like to organise a 2nd date. If he's not interested then at least you'll know. Or in fact he could be really interested and delighted that you've taken the bull by the horns. Send ONE text and see what happens ;)


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks everyone for that,i have decided that i will text him i really don't have anything to lose atleast i'll know where i stand.

    I will report back hope it will be good news.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Good luck!

    You never know, maybe he dropped his mobile in some water or some such and has lost your number. If not then so be it, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.


  • #8
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    Nothing to lose :)


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