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Guy who is looking for help with his friend.

  • 19-05-2011 6:20pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Well we are both almost 19 year old guys and we've known each other since primary school.
    Well lately I have noticed he's being down a lot and there a few reasons in his life that he would be down.
    Well I know his sister has had her troubles over the years and she burnt down there house
    destroying all his possessions and leaving him basically homeless before Christmas.
    His parents are also split up when when he was young and his father is a bitter homophobic man. Who treats his son like a piece of dirt. All his life only showed up now and then and then and he never did much for except drink and smoke and pick up random women.
    His mother tries her best but she is an alcoholic and often goes to AA meetings trying to give but to no avail. She can occasionally give up drinking and when she does she's great to him and does loads for him.
    Last Summer things really went down for the lad. They were in Europe on Summer holidays and his mother had one of her turns with the drink and she managed to fall into the sea and she nearly drowned and ended up in hospital. Then what really effected him is he slept with someone (I am not sure if it's a man or woman)when on holidays and he contracted hepatitis of who ever and he has being in a mess over since.
    I have a feeling that he might be gay. I am his friend and I just get that feeling. He is often over homophobic to people in a weird way like he is acting. He often rubs my legs and put his hand on dick outside my pants and he says he's only messing but one night when we were on a school trip we were out and he was drunk and he was alone and he made a move on me and he denied it the next day and let it go because I could see in his eye's he was upset about it. I know his parents would find it hard to accept that they have a gay son.
    Lately tough he has being talking about how down he is and how he would be better off dead. I have talked to him and I don't really know what to say to him!
    Any advice?


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