Cant stop crying, dont know what to do!

LegacyUser

I really really need advice about my relationship

I have been with my bf for 3 years, and up until about 2 months ago I thought everything was perfect! We are both mid twenties and from the start I have been head over heels about him. We shared everything and we both had eachothers email/webtext/facebook passwords until....

A few weeks ago I logged into his facebook innocently and noticed he was chatting to his ex gf, in the chat they talked about the night before (he never mentioned to me that he saw her) and he then asked if she would like to meet up for food and a catch up, he also asked for her number! From the chat it was clear they had spent some time together in the nightclub and he had walked her home!

Anyway later that night i met up with him and asked again did he meet anyone the night before or had he any news etc, he said no. I then told him what I saw and at first he seemed shocked and sorry but then he went mad at me and decided to change ALL his passwords and told me I invaded his privacy (even though we both always logged into eachothers fb randomly)

Eventually we sorted stuff out but im still constantly worried he is meeting her on the sly, or texting her and he keeps his phone away from me all the time! Now Ive noticed he is not as eager to see me anymore, i feel like im his last option to meet up with and if i dont make sure that im free on the nights he can see me we prob wouldnt see eachother a lot!

He also doesnt text me on nights out anymore, he used to always send me texts telling me how the night was going or saying he missed me or he got home safe!

I feel like he does things to get a rise out of me, he has even started adding loads of girls on facebook and I constantly worry how he knows them!

If i ask him anything he says he is 'sick of being interrogated' and just tells me to go home or drop it! I feel like I cant say anything because he just turns it back on me saying I dont trust him!

He never text me goodnight last night after I text him saying I loved him and when I logged on to facebook this moring I noticed he has become friends with 3 more girls. I burst into tears and havent been able to get out of bed yet..

Im so upset but I just dont know what to do.. I always thought he was crazy about me but now i feel like he just likes me there when it suits him. He can be so loving sometimes and tell me that he loves me so much and always will, but all the other stuff contradicts his words!

please help! I need someone to reassure me or give me the push that I need.

Johnny Favourite

I think sharing passwords for Facebook or Emails is a recipe for disaster.

Why did you snoop around on his account? Surely you could have just looked at whatever you wanted to see on his account from your own account?

I would be very annoyed if I was him.

Maple

OP, as you have another thread here, http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056269359, looking for advice on this issue I'm going to close this one.

Maple.