Getting mixed signals from a girl at work

James400

Hi all, i'm looking for opinions.

I'm a single guy in my late 30's and i've developed feelings for a single girl at work who is five years younger than me.

We both work in totally different areas (i work in the warehouse/ so would be in the warehouse canteen for lunch etc)...she works in the offices and would attend the office canteen for lunch.

Anyway, initially when this girl arrived at my workplace i didn't really like her because i was under the impression that she was a bit of a flirt, but that view totally changed when by accident i ended up talking to her at a work function four months ago and i kind of hit it off with her as i was talking to her for ages. We ended up hugging at the end of the night as she had to go home early but there was a bit of a spark there.

Anyway, as we work in totally different areas i initally didn't see her that much, but she's now about the operations areas (warehouse) as she has become a manager.

I'm a bit confused at the moment as i am receiving mixed signals from her (as i'm trying to deduce if she genuinely likes me). In fact today was a prime example, i arrived at the gate at work on foot and she drove in beside me, i said good morning to her and she kind of half acknowledged me, then i said to her to go on as i was keeping an eye on the gate to close and then she went out of her way to thank me.!

I recently had to move my work area to the back of the warehouse and i have run into her more than once as she walks past my area constantly, it's all very friendly 'hi' and a bit of conversation. Also i noticed that i could smell her perfume when she left my area. It's almost as if she's walking past my area to see if she can meet me...her perfume is noticeable about my work area.

In saying that there has been more positives towards me like...looking at me when we've had an open meeting in the warehouse with other staff, saying hello to me first thing when i arrive into the warehouse if she's there, etc.

Other times she would walk past me if i said hi and not respond, but i'm thinking she was probably busy.

Some times she looks like she has no interest in me at all and other times she's extremely friendly towards me.

Do you think this girl has at least some sort of interest in me? I'm puzzled.

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Did you post this very recently?

Silverfish

This is your fourth thread on this exact subject.

At this point I would recommend you read the advice given in the previous threads before starting any more.