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  • 05-05-2011 4:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Folks,

    Looking for a bit of perspective. Basically been single now the last 9-10 months. Since then I have had a lack of interest. Would be a decent enough looking guy (being told from girls perspective the odd time). Over the last while I have met a few girls but I'm always the "really nice friend" type rather than actually getting any other form of interest. Tried online dating thing but to be honest saw alot of "live for the weekend" type and i not really like that.

    Regarding meeting new people in a bit of a predicament. Finished college and in a decent job but i would be younger by good bit than many in the company (along with it being predominantly male. In terms of sports clubs I am heavily involved in sport again this is predominantly a male based setting and social aspect is slightly lacking

    On the odd night out I have no problem chatting away to girls so confidence uis not really a problem but just never seem to bridge the gap from chatting away to actually attracting women

    Was wondering anyone able to give a bit of perspective?

    Thanks,


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  • #2
    Fentdog84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    You'll meet someone.Just dont put yourself under too much pressure. You are doing all the right things going out, being friendly, meeting people and being relaxed. You may have to go through a few short terms and nearlys first but when you meet the right person that you want to have a serious thing with, you'll know. As for the ''ultra-hot'' ladies(whatever your criteria for those are), just treat them like normal people because thats what they are(with a bit of extra make-up). Dont put them up on a pedastal or act nervous around them. Enjoy the single life. :)


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