long term friendship over

LegacyUser

ok had a friend since school nearly 10 yrs, over the last few months we had been falling out alot, fights over things that i would do like having a few too many on sat night and the next day the abuse on text and calls from her would be crazy saying i was disrespectful and i didnt care bout our friendship and during these fights i always just took it and apoligised eventhough i wouldn't agree with what she be saying, i just agreed for some peace cause she was always so sensitive bout everything and you always had to watch what you said cause she would take offence, then theres another friend who felt friend A had an issue with her and accused her of it, friend A comes back to me then saying i was the one saying things to cause trouble between them and blamed me for it all, we then all met up the day after and i was blamed for every single thing and now they won't talk to me no more, they've cut me out, now i am kinda happy its over cause friend A was driving me mad but i didnt want it to end this way, i wanted it to end in a more civil way, now also we have another friend who hasn't contacted me since cause i assume she has been told not to talk to me anyway eventhough i never had a fight with her, my name has been blackened and i can't do nothing to fix it. would just like to know yer opinions on it ? thanks

Firetrap

What age are ye? This sounds like what 15 year old schoolgirls get up to. And what's with this blaming business?

Leaving that aside, I think you should just stop contacting either of these people. There are 2 people in this story, am I right? It's just a bit confusingly written. Friends don't go around blaming each other or stirring sh1t. I hope you have other friends you can hang around with rather than this lot. Don't bother with all of this civil/closure nonsense. Just walk away and invest your time in people who will treat you with respect and genuine friendship.

IrishEyes19

not blaming you at all, OP, but on these nights out, when you and her had too many.............what sort of stuff did you say to her and vica versa? the problem could lie there!!!!!

LegacyUser

oh we are 22 years old, well they kept saying they wanted to clear their names but i ended up getting my name blackened. yah im not talking to them anymore now, ive other friends to talk too.

as regards to nights out after drink, ive never said a thing to her, always talked to them during the night and always seemed to end fine until the next day but thats over with now won't be anymore dramas hopefully.

thanks for yer opinions