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  • 19-04-2011 11:53pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi People,

    Got a wee problem that i would like advice on.
    I have this friend that i met 4 yrs ago in work and have always been good friends with and last may she left the company to do other things. Over the last 2 months we have got really close and would txt each other every day and i have told her things goin on in my life that i have not told anyone else cause i considered i very close friend.

    Two weeks ago we all went out in a group and i got in a awful state drunk and apparently i was following her all night and hanging out of her which i honestly dont remember cause of the state i got in. We were talking next day and she was laughing saying i was hanging out of her for most of the night for which i said sorry and she just laughed it off she said it was funny, since then we have just talked once on Sunday when i txt to see how she was and we were and we were chattin back and forth and she said that her friends think i like her for which i said no i dont and then she didnt write back. I then txt her last night saying that things have been different since the night out between us and if i did anything wrong and she didnt write back which is very odd.

    Anyone any opinions what you think of this situation?????


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  • #2
    Kevin Duffy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    does she?????? wrote: »
    she said that her friends think i like her for which i said no i dont and then she didnt write back......... things have been different since the night out between us

    Since you talked normally (if I read you right) after the night out, things haven't changed since the night out, but have changed after you told her you didn't "like" her.
    You may need to talk that bit out with her, it sounds like she was hopeful you did like her and was disappointed that you didn't.


  • #3
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    So do you like her as more than a friend?


  • #4
    Fentdog84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    "My friends think you like me, is this true?". Yep that sounds like a definite hint to me that she wants you to initiate something. If she didnt mean it in that way, well its a kinda weird question to just ask someone, especially a friend. Either way your answer was a putdown. Just apologise for any misunderstanding and say you hope you can still be friends. If she was hoping that something would happen, she will be hurt and may not want to be, for a while at least. Nothing much else you can do


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