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advice on girl

  • 18-04-2011 11:09pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Just looking for a bit of advice because I have no-one else to talk to about it. There's a girl that I like, have no idea if she likes me. She's my best friends cousin and this is where the problem stems from. We know each other but not very well, like we've never had a conversation maybe the odd word here and there and the only way I see her is when I'm with my friend so I kind of find it hard to get an opportunity to talk to her. We're friends on facebook ,yes the dreaded facebook, and like real life never talked to each other or interacted with each other on facebook. I've wanted to ask her out for awhile but I don't think that we know each other well enough for me to be comfortable in asking her out and her in saying yes. Out of nowhere she poked me on facebook (the button with a million meanings) and we started poking each other until I decided to message her to see if there was any kind of meaning behind it which she replied with a smiley face "just in the mood for poking ppl". More than likely she meant nothing by it but i thought it was strange that all of a sudden she poked me and me being me probably read into her actions a bit too much. That was a few days ago and there has been nothing since. I've been trying to think of ways to start a chat with her, I think she might find it weird if I just come out of nowhere with "how are you" but I might be over thinking things. I'm kinda also worried about how my friend might feel if he knew I was interested in his cousin but again I might be just over thinking. It might all sound a bit silly but I'm just not used to this, with my last girlfriend I knew she liked my before I did anything and that was awhile ago. I'm the kind of person that wouldn't pursue girls and rather let things happen which I find rarely happens, actually just once. Sorry for the long post just had to get it out, any advice welcome.

    Thanks


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  • #2
    Fentdog84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    Ok you are going to need to make some contact with her. She probably has an idea from your brief encounters that you fancy her(girls can see these things from a mile away) hence when she poked you out of the blue, she was probably testing you out, and see how you would react. I could be wrong, but thats what it sounds like.

    As for your mate, so you are good enough to be mates with him, but not to date his cousin? Dosent sound right. I wouldnt care what he thinks. In fact if he's any kind of mate he'd help you out. Start asking questions about her to him, well how is so and so? Where does she hang out? etc. he might even offer to set you up with her.

    Or just send her a message to facebook and ask her out for a date. If she says no, at least you know where you stand and you can stop torturing yourself.


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