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Would you break it off with a guy who slept with a prostitute

  • 17-04-2011 7:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    If you were going out with a guy and he told you that he slept with a prostitute before he met you would you break it off with him?


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  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Hi there,

    This is an advice forum rather than a polling forum - are you asking because that is something you have found out your boyfriend has done and now you need some advice?


  • #3
    MitchKoobski
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,101 ✭✭✭MitchKoobski


    Before he met you?

    No.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No. I asked my bf had he and he said yes. He said he had used a condom. We both had std screens when we met. Both clean so no problem. I am quite a realistic woman and would assume many men have. Its not a problem no.


  • #5
    Fluorescence
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 8,490 Mod ✭✭✭✭Fluorescence


    What he did before he met you doesn't count now, IMO. I'd give him a chance, personally. Only you can decide if this is a deal-breaker for you though.


  • #6
    fghijkl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 209 ✭✭fghijkl


    If you were going out with a guy and he told you that he slept with a prostitute before he met you would you break it off with him?
    Personally if there was something in a guys past which had happened before i met him then no i wouldn't have an issue with it but:

    For me personally i have major issues with the reasons why a man would feel the need to have to pay for sex and how someone could view sex as a commodity. So yes I would dump him because it would be a deal breaker for me

    But nobody here can tell you the right or wrong answer OP because there is no right or wrong answer. Only you know how you feel about what he has done and if it's reason enough for it to be a deal breaker for you.


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  • #7
    shadowcomplex
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    fghijkl wrote: »
    Personally if there was something in a guys past which had happened before i met him then no i wouldn't have an issue with it but:

    For me personally i have major issues with the reasons why a man would feel the need to have to pay for sex and how someone could view sex as a commodity. So yes I would dump him because it would be a deal breaker for me

    But nobody here can tell you the right or wrong answer OP because there is no right or wrong answer. Only you know how you feel about what he has done and if it's reason enough for it to be a deal breaker for you.

    First you said you wouldnt have an issue with it then you said you would , which is it?


  • #8
    Distorted
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,064 ✭✭✭Distorted


    Yes.


  • #9
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    no way hose wrote: »
    No. I asked my bf had he and he said yes. He said he had used a condom. We both had std screens when we met. Both clean so no problem. I am quite a realistic woman and would assume many men have. Its not a problem no.

    If it's not a problem then there is little point posting in personal issues. If you want a discussion on how others feel about their partners using prostitutes then you should register and start a discussion on the appropriate forum, such as humanities.


  • #10
    fghijkl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 209 ✭✭fghijkl


    First you said you wouldnt have an issue with it then you said you would , which is it?
    If something happened in a guys past (gambling/drinking etc etc) then no i wouldn't have an issue with it because as long as he's changed, what's happened in the past should stay in the past.

    If that something is prostitution then personally yes that would be an issue for me because i have major issues with prostitution and the mentality behind it. So yes i would have issues with a bf who told me he had used prostitutes in the past and it would be a deal breaker for me

    Not that this is relevant:confused:
    The OP has said it's not an issue for her, and i'm sure the thread will be locked soon enough....


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