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she said she has a boyfriend, but I cant believe

  • 17-04-2011 12:19pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    all her friends told me that they know that she has NO bf, unless shes hiding him.

    it all began when we were having fun in a night out, when i asked her if shes interested in going with me sometime, and she she answered with a big smile "I have a bf", i took it easy and told her, i will always be interested if it happens any sooner and you become single!

    now, i know she might lied, but we are very easy going and talking to each other all the time, and i caught her on different occasions staring at me.


    its becoming more complicated nowadays, because i can see her becoming more interested and im becoming more shy, and not able to ask her out because of the first time rejection. I m not waiting her to ask me out! but need an advice on how to re-open the subject again with her.

    her friends are not willing to help because they claim to be not interested in future trouble.


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  • #2
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    You asked her out, she said no. Leave it at that. Also this:
    i caught her on different occasions staring at me.

    is bs. I see this so many times where some guys seem to put so much emphasis on perceived 'staring'. It's weird, just take her at her word.


  • #3
    HugoDrax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭HugoDrax


    Girls say 'I am a boyfriend' all the time to deflect unwanted attention and even if she has a boyfriend, lots of girls are with a boyfriend at the moment but would be open to a better man if the opportunity came along.
    Your approach was wrong and she wasn't persuaded that you were a better option than some other guy or guys she likes.
    You shouldn't have said that you would be her boyfriend if she becomes single again. She's not going to be interested in you if you are just going to be available no questions asked - that's no very attractive because it comes across as weak, insecure and desperate.
    If you approached her again and you came across better she might be interested.
    But don't be saving yourself for just her.
    Ask other girls out and you are sure to meet someone nice who will say 'yes' rather than 'no.'


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