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Dilemma

  • 15-04-2011 9:14pm
    #1
    heartbrok
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Not really a very personal issue
    But was going out with a girl for 4/5 years first loves an all that.best friends to.
    Finished on really akward./bad circumstance's. When we finished i left the country was only 19 and stayed gone for 4 years i'd no choice. had one conversation between that time, think she really hated me, she never said anything bad or abusive to me i just knew.
    But im back now shes moved on with her life with college and stuff like that.
    Latley though i really want to contact her though beacuse she was a big part of my life for so long,not that i didn want to contact her before just didn't have the balls, but would i be breaking boundries? would she not want to hear from me? like if she wanted to hear from mesure surley she could of got in contact ? or is it better to leave it be. and let her get on with her life???

    People s opinions would be great because my heads a mess. im 22 years old now btw .


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  • #2
    HugoDrax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭HugoDrax


    heartbrok wrote: »
    Not really a very personal issue
    But was going out with a girl for 4/5 years first loves an all that.best friends to.
    Finished on really akward./bad circumstance's. When we finished i left the country was only 19 and stayed gone for 4 years i'd no choice. had one conversation between that time, think she really hated me, she never said anything bad or abusive to me i just knew.
    But im back now shes moved on with her life with college and stuff like that.
    Latley though i really want to contact her though beacuse she was a big part of my life for so long,not that i didn want to contact her before just didn't have the balls, but would i be breaking boundries? would she not want to hear from me? like if she wanted to hear from mesure surley she could of got in contact ? or is it better to leave it be. and let her get on with her life???

    People s opinions would be great because my heads a mess. im 22 years old now btw .

    Have you been ignoring the rest of the female population of the planet?
    You are 22 so you can take your pick of any number of other young women.
    What is so special about this girl only that you were with her for 4 years when you could have been meet any number of other girls in the same time?
    Forget about her and starting dating more women and get on with your own life. She's moved on so why can't you?
    Stop living in the past and live in the now.


  • #3
    Fentdog84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    Send her an email/facebook message asking how she is and whats going on with her etc. Keep it very general and dont say anything about missing her/past regrets etc. If she responds positively suggest meeting up for a coffee to catch up. Its been 3 years so she should be over it by now. If not just move on and forget about it.


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