laughing at me

LegacyUser

the girl i used to fancy, have a big giggle with her friends when they see me, after I asked her out and she kicked my ash!

i really want to stop her from doing that, its been 2 weeks now and they do the same thing everytime they see me.

any advice? I dont want to be rude, i just want to tell her in a good way to embarresse her in front of her friends so the all stop laughing.

Fentdog84

ohmywhat wrote: »

the girl i used to fancy, have a big giggle with her friends when they see me, after I asked her out and she kicked my ash!

i really want to stop her from doing that, its been 2 weeks now and they do the same thing everytime they see me.

any advice? I dont want to be rude, i just want to tell her in a good way to embarresse her in front of her friends so the all stop laughing.

Wink at her
You might have taken her by suprise when you asked her out so she said no. Maybe she does fancy you but done pin your hopes on that. If she is just having a laugh at you just smile or wink at her just to show that its not getting to you. DONT approach her or say anything to her unless she says something to you first..

LegacyUser

Fentdog84 wrote: »

Wink at her

what does that mean? wouldnt she think Im just more idiot?

Firetrap

Fair fecks to you for having the guts to ask her out. I hope she doesn't deter you from asking other girls out in the future. They're not all as cruel as this girl and her silly friends are.

The one thing you shouldn't do is let her see that their behaviour is getting to you. I laughed at the winking idea but it might not be your thing. Just ignore them. They're looking for a reaction. If they get no response, they'll get tired of it.

fghijkl

the girl i used to fancy, have a big giggle with her friends when they see me, after I asked her out and she kicked my ash!

Christ i hope she's under the age of 17 OP. How childish.

Fair play for having the balls to ask her out. On the bright side at least now you know what a complete eejit she is, lucky escape eh!

Yeah the best thing to do is just completely blank her and her friends tbh.
And find someone better to flaunt in front of her, that's usually the best revenge

LegacyUser

thanks all!

I asked her at a moment of heroism! LOL! and all vanished at a moment of laugh.

by the way, the laugh doesnt look like a shy/flirty laugh or so, rather, looks like WTF

She is 22! jeysis how much i hate being hero sometimes!


ps: i liked the flaunt revenge, but looking for a stronger dose.. any suggestion?

IrishEyes19

Just ignore her and her friends, OP. You'd just look petty and silly if you took them up on it. Its very childish behaviour of them really, I wouldnt look into it too much. Says a lot for her maturity really.

HugoDrax

She's clearly an idiot and her friends are too.
Look at it this way.
Firstly she rejected you and you should say to yourself that no sensible girl would that silly.
Two weeks later and she and her friends are still talking about you.
Do they have a life?
Ask her next time if she is still talking about something two weeks old because nobody else asked her out since? Ask her is she attracted to you or something?
Treat the whole thing like it's a big joke.
Better yet go ask someone else out and next time you see her you will have another girl on your arm and you won't even be able remember her because you will have better things to think about.
Don't obsess about one girl who rejected you because there are sure to be many more girl who are interested.

joseywhales

Approach them and talk to them in an aloof "how are things?" manner. Ask them about their weekend and whatever you know that they care about, then tell them you'll see them later and leave, be relaxed and confident, you've nothing to lose at this stage anyway. They won't say anything and they'll feel like childish idiots.

If they laugh in your face ask them why they are laughing(not what are you laughing at?!). Don't be defensive or afraid they don't deserve an emotional reaction. It's not normal for people to act like this, you have to help them realise that they're being pathetic without telling them.

If you feel something like this is bothering you or itching at you even a little bit, confront it as soon as possible, don't hide like everyone else here suggests, it will make you stronger in the long run at least.Problems only ever become serious when people don't confront them.

joseywhales

IrishEyes19 wrote: »

Just ignore her and her friends, OP. You'd just look petty and silly if you took them up on it. Its very childish behaviour of them really, I wouldnt look into it too much. Says a lot for her maturity really.

Why not ask them if they are laughing at him. and if so ask them why. See how they can justify it. There's only one side that can look pathetic in that situation.

If they say no, which they probably will, tell them that they were giving you that impression by staring at you giggling or whatever it is that they do.

Just be reasonable and if it helps you can convince yourself that they've recieved serious brain damage and they need to be constantly ingratiated and recieve attention to keep them in a stable condition. It's probably equivalent.

LegacyUser

HugoDrax wrote: »

Ask her next time if she is still talking about something two weeks old because nobody else asked her out since? Ask her is she attracted to you or something?

thats creative, but Im confused now, to talk to her or not. I wrote in my op that I "used" to fancy her, but the laugh thingie let me change my mind.

LegacyUser

joseywhales wrote: »

Approach them and talk to them in an aloof "how are things?" manner. Ask them about their weekend and whatever you know that they care about, then tell them you'll see them later and leave, be relaxed and confident, you've nothing to lose at this stage anyway. They won't say anything and they'll feel like childish idiots.

If they laugh in your face ask them why they are laughing(not what are you laughing at?!). Don't be defensive or afraid they don't deserve an emotional reaction. It's not normal for people to act like this, you have to help them realise that they're being pathetic without telling them.

If you feel something like this is bothering you or itching at you even a little bit, confront it as soon as possible, don't hide like everyone else here suggests, it will make you stronger in the long run at least.Problems only ever become serious when people don't confront them.

trust me, i approch them while very confident, and it kills them.. i can assure you, it kills them badly, that Im still confident and act like nothing happened.. but to be frank, i only hated that im being a joke on their tongues, if you kno wwhat i mean

thecookingapple

Next time she laughs just walk over and say,God i can not believe that i asked you out! smile and walk away.

not out of meaniness, but really at this stage i am sure your asking yourself what you saw in such a childish person.

Good Luck.

LegacyUser

joseywhales wrote: »

Why not ask them if they are laughing at him. and if so ask them why. See how they can justify it. There's only one side that can look pathetic in that situation.

If they say no, which they probably will, tell them that they were giving you that impression by staring at you giggling or whatever it is that they do.

Just be reasonable and if it helps you can convince yourself that they've recieved serious brain damage and they need to be constantly ingratiated and recieve attention to keep them in a stable condition. It's probably equivalent.

This type of ppl get stall when you face them with such question, and they make no move or say, but 1 min later, they continue laughing! they are extremely ignorants, seems!

I need something that will shut them up forever.. ie: thinking am criminal or maniac.. hahahha anything that freaks them out!


ironically, when i meet the girl on her own, shes very pussy and blushed! and not even able to utter any word or look at my face!! cheese us

LegacyUser

thecookingapple wrote: »

Next time she laughs just walk over and say,God i can not believe that i asked you out! smile and walk away.

not out of meaniness, but really at this stage i am sure your asking yourself what you saw in such a childish person.

Good Luck.

I thought about doing so, but such girl needs a bigger dose, so she cant move her seat the whole day!

I need very very strong reaction, yet safe and professional pls! any ideas? Im out of them since i became hero and ask her out hahhha

Maple

This forum is not a place to ask for advice on how to humiliate someone/get revenge.

Thread locked.

Maple.