Past Regret

TweetFreak

Hey im new to this thought i'd try it.

Well a few months ago i broke up with my girlfriend and for a while all i could think about was her. But lately i have been thinking of this girl who i was seeing for a while a few years back but nothing never happened. She really liked me but i never made a move on her. The thing i liked about her was she liked me for me. But whenever i used see her lately there was still a spark and we were both with people but now im single and a week ago found out she was too. But lately i can't stop thinking about her and regret not giving her a chance. And i'm fretting over just talking to her again. I was thinking of writing to her on Facebook to say if she ever needed to talk she could talk to me since i went through a bad breakup. But im thinking maybe these feelings will go away. So what should i do ?

Thanks

tinkerbell

There is no need to message her through facebook saying "if she wants to talk, she could talk to me since i went through a bad breakup".

Send her a message asking how she is, if she'd like to go out for a drink or whatever it is you folks do these days (I'm out of the dating game a looong time!!) but I wouldn't mention breakups in your first contact with her!

Ya never know what might happen! But I think go for it - she's single, your single, you obviously get along, so go for it.

Fentdog84

Ya definitely dont do the ''Bad break up, I'm down in the dumps sort of thing''. You want a gf not a shrink..

Ellie2008

Fentdog84 wrote: »

Ya definitely dont do the ''Bad break up, I'm down in the dumps sort of thing''. You want a gf not a shrink..

And its effectively like saying to her "You're the rebound btw"

Kevin Duffy

I wouldn't see this as a regret, I'd see it as a previously missed opportunity presenting itself again. Lots of people would kill for a second go at a chance like this.

Best of luck.