gay when drunk

LegacyUser

I am absolutely in love with women and all of their parts. But sometimes, when I have a drink or two in, I can't help but fantasise about men. I think of all the things that I would like to do and have them do and there's no need to get more detailed.
I am so in love with my own gadgetery that I would love to mess around with another mans. And him mine as he would obviously know what he's doing.
And, when drunk, I would often get off on this though before any thought of a lady.
And let's be honest, it's pretty easy for a man to do so, and I have talked to willing men online.
But then once I am sober, the will has left me and I'm back to being a horny hetero. But every time I'm drunk, without getting too detailed, I really want to mess around with a man. I then look at men in a sober light and it does the opposite for me, I never even notice a handsome man on the street but I would nearly crash to car looking at a hot female.

Being slightly ar meisce at the moment, I would love a roll around with a fella but I know in the morning I would have nothing from it and, without any offence, may even be repulsed, purely because it's not my thing.

I'm not sure what I'm trying to say but, it's something I really want to try with a drink but nothing i would consider whilst sober.
And I dont have any issues btw, I'm cool with everything and have a wide basket of friends, but if you asked e now I'd be all for it. In the morning, it wouldn't tickle my taste bus at all.

I'm not sure what my question is, I suppose is it that there is anyoe the same out there or should I just get drunk some night and shag a nice chap?

dublin daz

Sounds like you should just try it once if these thoughts are a regular part of being drunk.

Have you ever considered being bisexual?

I'd just try it and see what you think, at least that way you've gotten it out of your system. Otherwise this will keep coming to your mind.

I assume you're single? I wouldn't do what I've just said if you're in a relationship.

Try before you buy and be happy.

Overheal

alchohol eliminates inhibition. like above, have you considered that you're simply bi-curious?

kjl

Lots of people are turned on by the thought of gay sex, and still not attracted to men. In fact it is a very common problem for some gay guys that they suddenly turn straight after they cum and have a lot of guilt about what they just did.

I would be yourself and consider myself to be bisexual.

Miss Fluff

kinda confused wrote: »

I would love a roll around with a fella but I know in the morning I would have nothing from it and, without any offence, may even be repulsed, purely because it's not my thing.

You won't know until you try. I think you should go for it.

Two possible outcomes;

You find it's not your bag. If it's not you've semi prepared for that eventuality and you've gotten it out of your system.

OR you may absolutely love it and wonder why you never tried it before and it will unleash a whole new exciting world of opportunities for you.

Give it a go I say.

brad99

Hi, i have been having alot of fantasies lately of been with a guy and it really turns me on. I have been in numerous relationships with woman and been left down alot by them so maybe thats a factor i dont know. I feel that if the right guy came along i would try a one night stand but i think it would stop there, because i am into woman and want to get married one day and have kids. I think you could give it a try.

tenchi-fan

I think you shouldn't drink if that's what it does to you!

HoneyRyder

tenchi-fan wrote: »

I think you shouldn't drink if that's what it does to you!

I think you should keep your prejudices to yourself or even better, lose them altogether.

I'm sure this must be a confusing issue for you OP but that's ok because sexuality is often a complex thing. Even though society dictates that we all occupy definite positions of being straight, gay or bisexual, I'm sure there are a multitude of preferences in between.

In your case, sober you is straight and tipsy you fancies exploring some fantasies, so why not allow yourself to live as such? Essentially as long as you aren't harming anyone, you need to allow yourself to experience happiness in whatever way it manifests itself for you.

Just be ok with the you that you are and the rest will surely follow

cafecolour

As kjl said above, it's not uncommon. I've been with several guys who were eager to try and then were more like 'why did I just do that' afterwards. You might be the same. Or you might really like it.

Or you might be repulsed afterwards, and then the next time you're drunk and horny start thinking of it again.

Is there a particular 'type' of guy you are attracted to or think about when you are drunk? Or just the idea of men?

You could also try starting slowly while sober (or just after a drink or two), and for a start just look for a guy to **** with you (with your hands to yourselves). It might be something that can be a turn out but not freak you out too much afterward - especially if you're, say, watching straight porn while doing it. Then move on from there.

If you prefer women but also want to play with a penis, well, you can look for a pre-op tranny, though that's a whole another ball of wax.

tenchi-fan

HoneyRyder, im gay. so forget the speech.
I just think if alcohol realy warps the op's mind he should steer clear.

HoneyRyder

tenchi-fan wrote: »

HoneyRyder, im gay. so forget the speech.
I just think if alcohol realy warps the op's mind he should steer clear.

I couldn't give two hoots what you are. Being gay doesn't make you exempt from holding prejudices nor does it render you automatically right on any issues relating to homosexuality. Calling the OP warped because he experiences a certain liberation through alcohol is far from helping his situation, whether you're straight gay or otherwise.

kjl

cafecolour wrote: »

If you prefer women but also want to play with a penis, well, you can look for a pre-op tranny, though that's a whole another ball of wax.

This is a big turn on for me, and I think I would be similar to the OP

tenchi-fan

HoneyRyder wrote: »

Calling the OP warped because he experiences a certain liberation through alcohol is far from helping his situation, whether you're straight gay or otherwise.

The op said he doesn't have these feelings unless he's drinking. Neither of us are psychologists so I'm not sure how you can call what the op feels "liberating" when he already said it would probably "repulse" him.

LegacyUser

OP, At very least you are bi-sexual, however your repressed homosexuailty is not something that is going to go away.

The "switch" back to "the norm" is basically just moving back into what you feel society "expects" of you and what you have always thought and felt up until when you started having these feelings under the influence of alcohol. The liberation of these feelings is gone once your mind has been relaxed by alcohol.

As you are quite clearly attracted to the male form, I think the suggestion of trying a pre-op TS would not fufill these desires you are feeling, as essentially a TS has the form and appearance of a woman, but with a penis.

So as suggested, explore your desires, have a fling with a man, and at least settle it in your mind once and for all.