How to meet girls?

LegacyUser

I have recently started a my first professional job and I have noticed that I have been getting a lot more looks then I was in my normal clothes great yeah? Wrong frustrating as hell, as I wish I could just go over and talk to these girls. Like over the last two weeks there has been a girl that walk past where I have been based and keep catching her eye. Then today I was dragged into her office when I had to meet up with my boss and she seen me and just smiled back.

Then again on the bus station I kept making eye contact with another girl, who ended up getting the same bus as me and when I was getting off I looked back to her and she smiled back at me.

Yeah this could me nothing but its frustrating that I dont have a confidence to talk to any of these girls. I have also recently moved to a new city where I dont know anymore. What would be the best way to meet girls other then catching there eye from across the room and not having the balls to go over and talk to them?

Staplor

Internet!

Dating sites are great, few dates here and there really build up your confidence.

HugoDrax

EyeCatch wrote: »

I have recently started a my first professional job and I have noticed that I have been getting a lot more looks then I was in my normal clothes great yeah? Wrong frustrating as hell, as I wish I could just go over and talk to these girls. Like over the last two weeks there has been a girl that walk past where I have been based and keep catching her eye. Then today I was dragged into her office when I had to meet up with my boss and she seen me and just smiled back.

Then again on the bus station I kept making eye contact with another girl, who ended up getting the same bus as me and when I was getting off I looked back to her and she smiled back at me.

Yeah this could me nothing but its frustrating that I dont have a confidence to talk to any of these girls. I have also recently moved to a new city where I dont know anymore. What would be the best way to meet girls other then catching there eye from across the room and not having the balls to go over and talk to them?

There are no other ways.
This is the only way.
So if you don't have the balls then act like you do and just start talking to her. How do you think other guys do it? How do you think your father met your mother? Have you ever asked your father how he met women when he was your age and how he eventually met your mother? if not why not? Surely he would be the expert? Don't he you think he would want to help his son find a potential wife? Do you know any close friends who are good with women? Why haven't you asked them for help? Have you ever been out in a club and seen a guy who is good with women? Why not befriend him and ask the guy for advice?
Better still why not ask women how men have approached them and how they asked them out?
Ask an old woman or a middle age woman because they are mature and understanding probably with sons of their own. They would be only to happy to help you.
There is world out there full of people could tell you how.

If a girl smiles back at you when you smile at her then go right over and start talking to her.
Do you want to go out with women, do you want girlfriends, do you want sex, love, romance, marriage and children with the right woman some day?
Well it's not going to happen if you don't do something about it.
So next time you see a girl you like, don't hesitate, just go over and start talking.
Every time you second guess and hesitate and go all shy the moment passes the opportunity vanishes doesn't it?
What's the worst that will happen?
Will she say no and the ground will open up and swallow you?
Go for it and just throw all the shyness in the bin.

MissMiami

OK, to answer your question 'How to meet girls?' you already know how - at the office, at the bus station, at the local shop, etc.

I swear all you need to do is talk to them! About anything! Start off with small talk, it doesn't matter what. You're not definitely going to marry the first woman you meet or be retelling the story on your wedding day, saying how you met so just go for it! Practice makes perfect.

Take the girl at your workplace for example. Talk to her about the staff party, a deadline, the canteen, rugby match, anything! Even if it's just for a moment, you're making progress. Then next time you see her, say hello. She might stop and talk for a bit. Then as you get talking more often, ask her would she like to go for a drink or something.

After a while, you'll gain more confidence and it will pay off.

Good luck! xxx