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would it be weird?

  • 06-04-2011 6:10pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok so theres a girl and ive noticed her on facebook, shes recently moved to my town and ive never spoken to her but have seen her around! we have 2 mutual friends on facebook but im just wondering would it be weird if i added her as a friend and tried to ask her out on facebook?? or would that just freak her out?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for the reply sunflower, i think going out with the facebook mutual friends is out of the questin as one of the friends was in college with her a few years ago and i dont think theyve kept in contact and our other mutual friend would be more of an acquaintance of mine. Dont think there would be much chance of meeting her out and about as she works irregular hours

    I wasnt going to directly ask her out was thinking of maybe just sending a private message introducing myself and just to say hi?


  • #3
    HugoDrax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭HugoDrax


    doooooooo or dont wrote: »
    Ok so theres a girl and ive noticed her on facebook, shes recently moved to my town and ive never spoken to her but have seen her around! we have 2 mutual friends on facebook but im just wondering would it be weird if i added her as a friend and tried to ask her out on facebook?? or would that just freak her out?

    If you see her in town why don't you just go up and talk to her in the flesh?
    She's hardly going to be interested in you if you have only two mutual friends on facebook?
    She doesn't know who you are and all she is going to see is a friend request from someone she doesn't know. She's probably not going to give you a second thought.
    But you see in a shop and you go up introduce yourself, have a chat with her and get her number, you could ask her for a drink or to go see a movie and take it from there if she agrees.
    There's nothing stopping you from doing that.
    So get out from behind your computer screen and do something practical to make that happen.


  • #4
    solerina
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭solerina


    No...dont do it, you would come across as being desperate and borderline stalker....wait until you meet her in person and get talking to her before adding her on facebook !!


  • #5
    Daegerty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,864 ✭✭✭Daegerty


    solerina wrote: »
    No...dont do it, you would come across as being desperate and borderline stalker....wait until you meet her in person and get talking to her before adding her on facebook !!

    I think not. Nothing wrong with a friendly message and what have you. Tis better to take the gamble


  • #6
    missgroovy21
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 138 ✭✭missgroovy21


    dont add her on fb.....

    try and find out what shes into and where she'll be and casually bump into her and if u get to mention your 2 mutual friends on fb then work it in......all goes well just ask her out


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