Girl problems

lpool2k05

Ok back to the start...I met a girl thru my sister 2 years ago nd we really hit it off...We just met up at weekends etc nd everything was great..we were mad about each other but she then went away to england to study..

So we broke up anyways and now shes came back to ireland on Paddys day and is hanging around with my sister..My whole family went out Paddys day to the local and she came in with my sister..I was shocked to see her...She said shes back for good..

Later in the night, and out of nowhere she starts kissing my brother..I know OMG like..i got angry at her and walked out!!100 msgs later and she said she doesnt really like my bro and its me she likes..so i was over the moon...

I dont want to share girls with my brother but she was with me first..So we met up, and she said she justs wants things to settle for a while as she would look so stupid going from 1 brother to the next which i agreed..

So anyway last nite she went out with me and my family again and she was flirting with my brother all night which really got to me..I asked her what was she doin and she said just enjoying herself...I think shes playing both of us..but the thing is im already mad bot her and always was. I also think my brother likes her so theres ALOT of tension there.

She then says to me she likes us both and doesnt know what to do...She is my perfect woman which makes it even more frustrating ....

So she said she needs time sparking an all out competition....utter madness ...

How should i approach this??give her less attention?dont text her...or go all out and try to get what i want...which is her

shellyboo

lpool2k05 wrote: »

Ok back to the start...I met a girl thru my sister 2 years ago nd we really hit it off...We just met up at weekends etc nd everything was great..we were mad about each other but she then went away to england to study..

So we broke up anyways and now shes came back to ireland on Paddys day and is hanging around with my sister..My whole family went out Paddys day to the local and she came in with my sister..I was shocked to see her...She said shes back for good..

Later in the night, and out of nowhere she starts kissing my brother..I know OMG like..i got angry at her and walked out!!100 msgs later and she said she doesnt really like my bro and its me she likes..so i was over the moon...

I dont want to share girls with my brother but she was with me first..So we met up, and she said she justs wants things to settle for a while as she would look so stupid going from 1 brother to the next which i agreed..

So anyway last nite she went out with me and my family again and she was flirting with my brother all night which really got to me..I asked her what was she doin and she said just enjoying herself...I think shes playing both of us..but the thing is im already mad bot her and always was. I also think my brother likes her so theres ALOT of tension there.

She then says to me she likes us both and doesnt know what to do...She is my perfect woman which makes it even more frustrating ....

So she said she needs time sparking an all out competition....utter madness ...

How should i approach this??give her less attention?dont text her...or go all out and try to get what i want...which is her

Forget all about her, what an eejit. You'll have nothing but drama and hassle from her. Plenty of sane fish in the sea...

HugoDrax

Your relationship with your brother is more important.
Tell your brother what is going on and let him know she is wrecking your head.
Your brother needs to cop on to the fact that she will drive a wedge between you both if she sticks around because if things get serious with your brother she will be trying to cheat with you. Or if she ends up serious with you whenever she wants to wreck your head she will go back to your brother.
You need to ignore her, tell her bluntly to get lost and leave your brother alone too and you need to stop thinking about her and get another girl.
She might be seeing other men besides your brother and yourself for all you know because she might be doing this all the time with other guys and you'd never know about it.
I think she is bad news and you are better off getting shot of her.
If somehow you can get together with her properly and she stops carrying on with your brother and things get back to normal and by gones would be by gones then well and good but I can't see that happening. If she isn't a crafty person who likes to play cruel games then she is definitely unstable who doesn't what she wants and she will drag you down either way.
She seems like a very selfish girl and she will only hurt the relationship you have with your brother the longer she is in your life.
Nip this in the bud right now before it escalates into a potentially explosive situation.
You will be better off in the long run.

lpool2k05

Yeh i think she must be unstable..She just txted there and said she wont be heading out for a while..Im kind of happy bot dat...I think a clean break is defo needed