Frustrated Already!!

TheShadows

I like Zack. He attracts me so bad! he doesn't talk to girls much. I dont know why but i'm sure he's not gay. He just hungs with his guy friends, and whenever a hot girl walks by he doesn't even look at her.
Usually, i have no problem attracting boys, it's so simple and easy. I only need to flirt just a little and they're chasing after me. But Zack is so different. he doesnt even look at me and that's frustrating. I'm friends with half of his classmates, and his best friend is a very close friend of mine. so obviously we met not directly though. once i asked him to help me with some homework and he did and he was soo nice. time to time we talk but just about school and finals. and it's always me who starts the chat. if i dont start he never does. so its realllly making mee irritated!!! I really liike hiiim, i just want us to be friends, to hung out, i want to know him and let him know me.... but he's making this very difficult. I dont know what to do to make him interested. maybe he is and he doesnt want to show it... I dont know!!! Anyway, there's this girl who likes him too and she's always running after him and his best friend told me he doesnt like her but she's still following him everywhere and i dont want to be that kinda girl! i want him to come and talk to me like a normal guy would do.

I'm tired of waiting! Plz Help me!!

Vicxas

Theres nothing you can do, unless he shows any interest in you you're going to have to wait and see.

HugoDrax

TheShadows wrote: »

I like Zack. He attracts me so bad! he doesn't talk to girls much. I dont know why but i'm sure he's not gay. He just hungs with his guy friends, and whenever a hot girl walks by he doesn't even look at her.
Usually, i have no problem attracting boys, it's so simple and easy. I only need to flirt just a little and they're chasing after me. But Zack is so different. he doesnt even look at me and that's frustrating. I'm friends with half of his classmates, and his best friend is a very close friend of mine. so obviously we met not directly though. once i asked him to help me with some homework and he did and he was soo nice. time to time we talk but just about school and finals. and it's always me who starts the chat. if i dont start he never does. so its realllly making mee irritated!!! I really liike hiiim, i just want us to be friends, to hung out, i want to know him and let him know me.... but he's making this very difficult. I dont know what to do to make him interested. maybe he is and he doesnt want to show it... I dont know!!! Anyway, there's this girl who likes him too and she's always running after him and his best friend told me he doesnt like her but she's still following him everywhere and i dont want to be that kinda girl! i want him to come and talk to me like a normal guy would do.

I'm tired of waiting! Plz Help me!!

Just come out with it and tell how you feel.

TheShadows

HugoDrax wrote: »

Just come out with it and tell how you feel.

I dont think that's smart. It'll make him run away!!! PLus, i only want us to be friends first.

I just need some good excuse for a chat like in Facebook for instance. Something innocent that will make him want to talk to me more often, something to start with, and then it'll be easier.

Any Ideas plz??

enviro

TheShadows wrote: »

i only want us to be friends first.

Careful there, you might end up in the friend zone for good! Ask him out; to the cinema, walk in the park, to a bar for a few drinks, out to dinner.... ect

Plenty of opportunities to chat then, afterwards both of ye will know if there is something more than friendship between ye. Good luck.

HugoDrax

TheShadows wrote: »

I dont think that's smart. It'll make him run away!!! PLus, i only want us to be friends first.

I just need some good excuse for a chat like in Facebook for instance. Something innocent that will make him want to talk to me more often, something to start with, and then it'll be easier.

Any Ideas plz??

You don't want to be friends with him do you?
You want to be girlfriend and boyfriend don't you?
So if you just become friends with him first he may not realize that you want something more? Bite the bullet and let him know up front because trying to give him hints hasn't worked so far and this other girl is being more forward than you are. If you don't take a chance you might miss your chance and he might decide he likes her because you haven't let him know how you feel.
If he runs away he wasn't really worth it in the first place and you should have been using your valuable time with some other guy.
He probably doesn't know that you like him and if he does know he doesn't know how to do anything about it.
The time is past to wait for him to do something.
You have to take the bull by the horns because it doesn't look like it's going to happen and besides someone else might steal him off you.
If you do nothing about it then nothing will happen.