friends of my crush stare at me

LegacyUser

I asked a girl out, and she rejected me, now her male friend stares at me in a creep way, and her female friend stare at me in an interesting way. what does that mean? does it mean that the girl i asked out is interested in me but couldnt tell when i asked her out?

spinandscribble

I think you're probably projecting what you want to believe on these people.

if she was interested she'd probably let you know since you've made your feelings clear. Give yourself a break and don't look for hidden meaning in the way people look at you, it'll ruin your head.

LegacyUser

sunflower27 wrote: »

Hi there

To be blunt, if she rejected you then take it at face value that she is not interested. You could spend months wondering what all these looks mean and be totally off the mark.

Let it go. If you do and she is interested then she will be in touch.

Move on... seriously. And don't worry about her friend. He could be jealous/protective... a million things.

i think you best described it What i cant stand is the daily look at me. we take same class! i will try to ignore their looks.

thank you

HugoDrax

A good looking girl gets guys hitting on her everywhere she goes and often it happens without her expecting it. So girls don't like it when guys come up to them at the wrong time when they are busy or tired or they already have a boyfriend. Girls don't want to be going around having to explain this to every guy.

Her friends are probably just looking out for her. You might not have intended it but asking her out the way you did might have not have been at the right time for her so she probably told her friends about you and they are under instructions to get rid of you so she won't have to deal with the situation.

That's shouldn't be a big deal unless you make it a big deal for yourself. You might be better off forgetting about it and moving on and find some other girl?

If you still like this girl maybe you should just make friends with her friends and show them that you are just a genuine guy. If they see a different side to you word might get back to the girl and next time you see her out with her friends there might not be this drama and tension you have to deal with?

If she has lots of guy friends lots of these fellas might fancy her too so they wouldn't like another guy competing.

Girls follow a kind of code of watching each other's back so they all can be safe from unwanted attention from guys and unfortunately girls often get jealous of other girls who get attention from guys so perhaps if they are not with anybody themselves, they don't want her to be either.

The point anyway is to ignore a girl's friends at your peril.

A girl will often make up her mind about a new guy by showing him off to her friends and gauging their reaction. So you have to realize a girl comes with friends attached and you have to keep on their good side too.

LegacyUser

HugoDrax wrote: »

A good looking girl gets guys hitting on her everywhere she goes and often it happens without her expecting it. So girls don't like it when guys come up to them at the wrong time when they are busy or tired or they already have a boyfriend. Girls don't want to be going around having to explain this to every guy.

Her friends are probably just looking out for her. You might not have intended it but asking her out the way you did might have not have been at the right time for her so she probably told her friends about you and they are under instructions to get rid of you so she won't have to deal with the situation.

That's shouldn't be a big deal unless you make it a big deal for yourself. You might be better off forgetting about it and moving on and find some other girl?

If you still like this girl maybe you should just make friends with her friends and show them that you are just a genuine guy. If they see a different side to you word might get back to the girl and next time you see her out with her friends there might not be this drama and tension you have to deal with?

If she has lots of guy friends lots of these fellas might fancy her too so they wouldn't like another guy competing.

Girls follow a kind of code of watching each other's back so they all can be safe from unwanted attention from guys and unfortunately girls often get jealous of other girls who get attention from guys so perhaps if they are not with anybody themselves, they don't want her to be either.

The point anyway is to ignore a girl's friends at your peril.

A girl will often make up her mind about a new guy by showing him off to her friends and gauging their reaction. So you have to realize a girl comes with friends attached and you have to keep on their good side too.

brilliant descriptive reply. thanks you so much, will take your advice seriously.