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Another upset woman

  • 30-03-2011 11:35am
    #1
    sunnyacres
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Everything about the relationship was pointing to it being doomed. It finally ended on Monday 28th even though he said everything was fine.

    He's 'alcohol dependant', smokes, unemployed and is totally depressed.
    He is constantly reminiscing about the house he had when he was married, the cars that he had
    He starts drinking from the moment he wakes up til he falls asleep.
    He has had some crap relationships, so have I. He drinks wine and cider so doesn't see these as dangerous as spirits/lager!!

    I never knew/experienced love before I met him, he was never violent and I never felt threatened.

    I met his kids and we became close - they were always pleased to see me, same with his parents. I have lost these relationships too.

    He has lots of issues that I can't help him with. Even chatting with a woman who lives the other side of the world - says that he is love with her - she worked over here for a while so they did know each other but that was at least 5 years ago. Her marriage is failing too!!

    He ended it - wants to be alone - sort out his problems alone.

    We were together for a year - living together for the last 5 months - in a poxy little studio flat.

    I've lost 2 jobs and I'm now losing my home - all because I'm weak and wanted to be with him.

    I want to be able to move on but am finding it sooo difficult - I'm crying all the time, drinking, sleeping, in danger of being a stalker!!

    No one to talk to except the Samaritans, desperate need of a hug

    How do I start - do I 'unfriend' him on Facebook, delete his numbers/email address? I can't......

    Help................:confused:


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