is he interested?

LegacyUser

another boy meets girl story - met a guy on a night out with friends, spent the entire night chatting, kissed at the end and went home seperately, met up next night to hang out and slept together. he seemed keen, told me he hadnt met a girl as interesting, fun and beautiful as me before (yeah I know, a line, but it seemed like he was genuinely interested)....so we parted with a promise from him to get in touch, that was a sunday, then nothing till we ended up all out together the following thurs (paddys night), again spent the night together and went home together....so I asked if he wanted to meet up that weekend and on sunday he got in touch to see if I wanted to do something...but he ended up caught up with study (heś doing a masters) and cancelled later that evening with a "we will do something soon" text. no word all week until that friday to tell me he had a friend visiting that weekend and how was I...again no mention of meeting.

so that was last weekend, and now he is in touch saying we should do something soon and Im wondering if he really is bothered at all or just into the back and forth of texting and stringing me along? I knew that it was just sex the first night, but after we hooked up the second time, and the things he said, I thought maybe he was looking for more, and now Im not sure at all. weŕe not kids, late 20ś for me and 30ś for him

I am a friend

Sounds to me like he is not all that pushed as yet. He is not firming up dates or rushing to see you.

Sit back, have no expectations and see how it goes

wylo

if I was crazy about someone new I would definitely make the time, I suggest sit back and do nothing, dont let him string you along, your interest in him will dwindle quite quickly anyway if your not in touch at all, and thats a better thing if hes coming across as not pushed. You have made the first suggestion to meet up, he cancelled so its really up to him.

Pretty much the same thing happened with me recently, it was the first time in a long time id connected with a girl that strongly, we spent the night together , talked alot, had a laugh, even joked in reference to when we'd meet up again(her saying it too not just me), exchanged numbers, but everything seemed to dwindle quickly as soon as we were texting, cancelled arrangements and eventually nothing back . I was semi-gutted for a few days but within a week id lost interest.
(sorry kinda hogged the thread:p)

LegacyUser

thanks lads, good sound advice there from ye....well, he got in touch again to say we must meet up soon and he has been swamped with work....so i told him Im free sunday evening and he said he would meet me then but no firm plan, well, lets see what happens, gonna leave it all up to him from now on.